bassbuckeye07;1897815; said:
I know you are very saddened by this sad state of affairs....but if you could explain Tress's situation and relationship with the party's mentioned and how he let TP down that would be great.
This is all opinion, so take it for what it's worth (if anything) as I'm an outside observer of this all:
I'm understanding that JT was caught in between a rock and a hard place. If he turns Pryor (and the others) in, they could possibly never play football again at OSU. So he decided to probably consult some other folks (more than likely folks that work at the school).
He came to the final conclusion that he was going to keep it quiet.
I'm focusing on these two guys for a reason. They're both leaders. They're both the face of the school for many others that don't get a chance to watch OSU football on Saturday afternoons.
As a leader, it's a lonely road. It's not a popularity contest, or a contest to get folks to like you. I'm sure that Coach Tressel gigged Pryor up personally, no doubt in my mind. But the young man needed to learn that there are serious reprocussions for your actions, and he missed that chance when he decided not to say anything.
The one thing about lies - is they always, eventually, have a way of coming out and blowing up in your face, no matter how noble the cause is.
I had a situation with one of my players that was caught taking things from the concession stands where we used to practice. I liked the kid, one of the best two players I ever coached. Coached his older brother. His dad had just died, and he was the one who found him.
So he and I sat down. I talked to him and had a long talk with him after practice. He told me he had done what he did to take pressure off his mom, who was dealing with all of the stuff going on.
And I was crushed that he wasn't going to be able to play anymore due to what he had done. And I was the one that was going to have to tell his mom.
She came to practice, and we all sat down again and talked. She cried, and my heart fell. But they both understood and accepted the punishment. I went to the board and lobbied on the kid's behalf. They accepted, and reduced his ban to a three game suspension.
That's what I meant by him letting TP down.