I didn't call it acceptable, I just said I could give a shit. As a general rule, unless you're trying to stick your dick in me, my wife or my kids, I could give a fuck what you do with it. It's not my concern, and I really just don't fucking care when consenting adults have relationships - in or out of wedlock. It just simply doesn't matter to anything important to me, and honestly, I don't have any idea why anyone else gives a good god damn either. It just wreaks of holier than thou nonsense to me.
I appreciate that you're trying to limit your frustration to what Urban knew.. But, as to your second part - I guess I don't know what motivates you to make sure we all know Zach made some bad choices in life. Whether or not things should or shouldn't have been reported can be an interesting discussion... but.. even then.. I am not eager to live in a world where I have to report my out of work goings on to my employer. Should Smith have told Urban he got a DUI? I don't know.. maybe.. I guess I'd have to read his employment contract... but.. beyond that, again, I could give a shit. You don't lose your right to work because of a DUI... indeed, you usually get driving privileges so you can keep your job.
There are no NCAA implications.** Even if there were, it's easily addressed....
NCAA here: We hear two of your coaches took a recruits coach to a strip club and bought lap dances... what did you do about this?
Ohio State: Well, we counseled those coaches not to do that ever again, made sure our policy reflected that... As it happens, neither of those coaches ever did that again nor have any others, so far as we know... neither of them work here any longer, and .. as you may know, we suspended our AD for 2 weeks without pay and our HC for six fucking weeks and three games when we found out all this stuff, including how the strip club was handled.
** I have not scoured the NCAA rule book to find any potential violation, and since I can't think of one off the top of my head, I will say the burden is on someone else to look at it if they think some provision applies.