I have 20+ years in the field dealing with these injuries so I understand completely the difference between ducking your head in preparation for taking a hit and leading with the crown of your helmet, two completely distinct actions. Also having played football, there is a technique called “bowing your neck”, taught in preparation for a taking/delivering a hit, that helps stabilize the muscles in the neck in preparation for contact, but never is it a good idea to duck.
So, even if you were talking about Lawrence ducking and receiving the blow rather than Wade delivering it, it is still unsafe for either party to drop their head in that scenario due to possible compression forces on the spine, neck, and surrounding cord possibly leading to serious injury.
In one scenario (head up) if things go wrong you have a muscle strain and a sore neck for a few days. In the other scenario (head down) if things go wrong you’re sipping out of a straw and confined to a wheelchair without the use of any part of your body from the neck down for the rest of your life. Seems pretty clear to me.
Regardless, your comment still applies that you feel more injury is likely with the head up. And to me, that is ignorant. Sorry you are so butt-hurt.