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MaxBuck;2094850; said:Huge difference between "not showing sympathy" and repeatedly trumpeting how morally superior you are to a man who made a grievous error in judgment but also did much to help many people over his lifetime.
I understand and agree with those who are outraged over the horrific actions of Jerry Sandusky. But I also have some sympathy for Paterno, a man who evidently found it difficult to reconcile the acts that were reported to him with twenty years of experience with a man he thought was caring and morally upright. This kid of conflict (often referred to as cognitive dissonance) can paralyze one's usual decision process.
Lot of people have engaged in what I've called an orgy of self-congratulation relative to their willingness to post criticisms on a fan message board. If you have ever been in a similar situation and behaved differently, either intervening directly or hammering at the police until the perp was arrested, then you have a right to express this sort of vitriol. Otherwise, I think the best response is self-examination, along with gratitude that we have not been faced with such a thing.
Sorry man, I can't buy it. He didn't go to the police when a man he saw probably every day was raping children. I hope I'm never in the situation, but I sure as hell know I wouldn't just report it to my boss. I'd be on the phone with the police the second I heard about it.
I've worked with kids plenty in my life and done plenty of volunteer work. I know how fragile kids can be in difficult situations. Seeing someone take advantage of that would spark a rage in me that I've probably never felt. I wouldn't just go through the motions.
I'm not trying trumpet anything. I'm disgusted that a man, in such a position of power, trust and leadership (of kids/young adults, even), was aware of child rape and did not tell the police.
EDIT: I haven't read the pages between this post and your quoted post here. Don't know if it matters, but figured it was worth mentioning.
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