We Don't Deserve Dogs
- By NJ-Buckeye
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My experience is.. the new pup senses things.. especially sadness and grief.. Just seems to know...
and makes themselves a key part of the therapy and recovery... they'll burrow their head into your hands and face if they feel your grief..
seen it many times already.. first hand
The grief is still there but so is the understanding you have a new one you are responsible for.. and if it's a puppy, the added emotion that you are its protector as well.. it's a baby. It all works as therapy.. cuz losing a pet is rough.. rougher than most folks know..
As to "now our dog is 5 years old. I have no idea what I'm going to do when she's gone.".. makes me remember that EXACT sensation... when my all-time fav was exactly 5, I dealt with the same emotion.. lost her at 12.. She will always be my fav... bad ass but very affectionate...
and makes themselves a key part of the therapy and recovery... they'll burrow their head into your hands and face if they feel your grief..
seen it many times already.. first hand
The grief is still there but so is the understanding you have a new one you are responsible for.. and if it's a puppy, the added emotion that you are its protector as well.. it's a baby. It all works as therapy.. cuz losing a pet is rough.. rougher than most folks know..
As to "now our dog is 5 years old. I have no idea what I'm going to do when she's gone.".. makes me remember that EXACT sensation... when my all-time fav was exactly 5, I dealt with the same emotion.. lost her at 12.. She will always be my fav... bad ass but very affectionate...
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