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Pre-Marital sex

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Here's the ticket:

Vince Vaughn said:
"Janice, I apologize to you if I don't seem real eager to jump into a forced awkward intimate situation that people like to call dating. I don't like the feeling. You're sitting there, you're wondering do I have food on my face, am I eating, am I talking too much, are they talking enough, am I interested I'm not really interested, should I play like I'm interested but I'm not that interested but I think she might be interested but do I want to be interested but now she's not interested? So all of the sudden I'm getting, I'm starting to get interested... And when am I supposed to kiss her? Do I have to wait for the door cause then it's awkward, it's like well goodnight. Do you do like that ass-out hug? Where you like, you hug each other like this and your ass sticks out cause you're trying not to get too close or do you just go right in and kiss them on the lips or don't kiss them at all? It's very difficult trying to read the situation. And all the while you're just really wondering are we gonna get hopped up enough to make some bad decisions? Perhaps play a little game called "just the tip". Just for a second, just to see how it feels. Or, ouch, ouch you're on my hair. "
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On a serious note, had sex with one chick prior to my wife. I regret it in the sense that I knew I shouldn't have. The emboldened pretty much sums up the beginning of that relationship, and then it carried on for 15 more months until I was at my absolute lowest place in life. I let my life go to shit, because of this chick and attempting to make it work because we "did" it. I obviously wasn't mature enough sexually to deal with it.

Now, from my wife's perspective, she was actually "at peace" so to say to know that I had "experience" (regardless of how bad it was). I was my wife's first. It relieved the stress from her POV.

Everyone's situation is different.
 
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If you ever want to satisfy a woman, you better learn to


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I was raised Catholic as well. (And I still am a practicing Catholic) I chose not to have sex before marriage, and I didn't get married until I was 32.

It was tough. Some days I seriously regreted my decision and was close on a few occasions to going back on my conviction and giving into the temtations that came along with becomming intimate with the young ladies I dated.

But now as a married man I am glad and proud that my wife is the only woman I have "been with" (even though I am not the only man she ever had sex with). I believe it helps make my commitment to my marriage stronger. I don't believe it made the actual experience of having sex for the first time "super spectacular" for me or my wife physically...I do count it as a spiritual accomplishment that coincides with my broader beliefs.

As parents, my wife and I will try to teach our children the positives associated (from our perspective - each of us experiencing both sides of the track, so to speak) with waiting to have sex until married.

On a side note...I don't like condoms either. :wink2:
 
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jmorbitz;1420807; said:
To clear up some of the complex details, just go down on her. It'll be the best thing you do, but do it first. You will not regret it.
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Absolutely, and while you're at it put a finger or two up her butt. She'll love it and it paves the way for getting other things in there later on. Plus you remain pure for marriage.
 
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