buckeyeintn
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There was a time I would have at least partially agreed with you. Not to the extent of calling the victim names, but saying there is no reason for her not to leave. But OsUPhAN is right. You don't know her situation or her background. Because of things in her past (abuse home life or relationships, etc.), her self esteem may be so low she thinks she deserves it. I've known people who have been in abusive relationships and felt they were trapped or felt it was their fault. I may not understand it but it is their reality. There was a time I knew much more than I do now. Things like there is no excuse for her not leaving. It seems like the older I get the less I really know.I'm a POS for calling her a twat for staying with the guy accused of FELONIUS domestic abuse? I'll take that pick all day.
There are enough services out there for battered women who have children to protect them and take care of them. IF they decide to stay in the relationship, THEN that certainly doesn't change the propensity for further abuse to her, the child or anyone else that remains. Removing yourself from the Aggressor is the only route to safety. There's no "maybe" in that.
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