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muffler dragon;1109450; said:
LOL!!! My apologies. I type as I think, and that's actually more collegiate than how I talk. I'll try to keep my audience in mind in the future.

You see? If this were public school, you would have already had to conform to the lowest common denominator and the smarter kids are suffering right out of the gate.

If there were just some way to avoid such a predicament....
 
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BuckeyeRyn;1109429; said:
wtf does "intimating" mean???? if only I were home schooled :wink2:...

It's a compound word, from "intimate" and "mating". But it's best learned by practice - I'll be back in town next month.
 
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bluechillj;1109452; said:
I chose to homeschool my kid, TedGinn05, and as part of my socialization method had him surfing BP 6-8 hours a day at one point.


Most people said it wouldn't work, but he got accepted at this university I had never heard of (U of Phoenix?) and next year he'll be moving out there with a fellow he's been corresponding with through Craigslist.

GPA?
 
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BuckeyeRyn;1109453; said:
Exactly, I just try to be the best mom I can and hope I'm not screwing my kids up too bad along the way...

Yeah, the other BP members they've met can handle the screwing up part easily. :tongue2:
 
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Buckeyeskickbuttocks;1109433; said:
Point is, and one with which I agree (Surprised?), the school setting has the advantage of teaching kids subtly about the "real world" It's like a job, and I've learned how to deal with reporting here every day and so on owing to lessons I learned from schooling. I wasn't with a bunch of people I liked all the time. I had to deal with people I thought were assholes... I had to improvise when I forgot my lunch... shit like that. Just like the real world, where I don't get to hang out with my buddies and loved ones all day long singing songs and cleaning up parks.

There is also no question in my mind that the schools can and should be improved in terms of education. That is, it's not so bad (in my mind) that our kids are nothing but drooling idiots or whatever (there's good schooling out there, and I happen to have purposely moved to where I did so that I got in a good school... err.. my kids did, I mean) but it certainly can be improved.

While there are indeed folks out there who would do well in the home schooling environment.. and parents who take it seriously and are smart enough to actually teach approrpriately and so on... not everyone has that kind of time, for one thing, not everyone has that kind of ability for another (I sure as fuck can't teach math, for example)... and there are several instances of "home schooling" I have delt with in my professional life which was nothing more than a way for parents to commit their kids to forced labor. I know that's not the "standard" but there's down side to homeschooling as well, and it's not just the socialization issue.

BKB:

I understand your points, Ryn's points, and each side of the coin. So I hope that no one has felt like I've attempted to dismiss their POV and opinion.

You are correct that there are differing circumstances for everybody. I won't shame a person for educating their children in a public school. That would be overly hypocritical of me considering I am a product of said environment.

I brought up the other thread, because I am really wanting to evaluate non-religious homeschooling. I'm sure you understand the reasons as do most others. I am attempting to research this to the best of my ability and make an informed decision with my wife by May (for the next school year). I want the BEST for my children (as everyone does). The caveat for me is that my wife is a product of a completely different experience. Hell it's just like her learning to read by phonics and I learned by wrote. One day she was asking me about about spelling something, I answered, and she responded with, "Oh, the "e" makes the "i" say it's name". I was like, "What the hell?!" I started thinking about that Beyonce song. I had never heard this mantra before, but that's how my wife learned. Apples and Oranges. We are under the presumption that my daughter WILL learn better through a homeschool environment. But you know what? When she gets older, we're going to entertain the option WITH her. Once highschool hits, we'll sit down and see where she stands on her education. There is even the option open that we make a change from homeschooling to public next year or any year. We're not stuck in stone. We simply want the BEST (without paying for private).

Anyway... I didn't start this debate intentionally, and I'm not looking to justify what we're doing nor deride anyone for choosing otherwise. As brutus said, and BB73 added, "to each their own". I just find the "social" justifications to be lacking.
 
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bluechillj;1109452; said:
I chose to homeschool my kid, TedGinn05, and as part of my socialization method had him surfing BP 6-8 hours a day at one point.


Most people said it wouldn't work, but he got accepted at this university I had never heard of (U of Phoenix?) and next year he'll be moving out there with a fellow he's been corresponding with through Craigslist.

That's pretty cool.
 
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scooter1369;1109447; said:
Probably the best homeschool parent I know is a single mother of three. Yes, some are capable of the seemingly impossible. Others have all of the tools, smarts and time, and still can't teach their own children to eat with a spoon without severely hurting themselves. Its a talent to be able to educate and connect with children. cincibuck has a talent as a life long educator to be able to mold minds. Being well educated yourself doesn't make one capable of teaching.

I agree!
Most people if they have car trouble don't have the skill set to fix it in their driveway. Nor should they try.
Choose the right person/skill set to do the job.
 
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bluechillj;1109452; said:
I chose to homeschool my kid, TedGinn05, and as part of my socialization method had him surfing BP 6-8 hours a day at one point.


Most people said it wouldn't work, but he got accepted at this university I had never heard of (U of Phoenix?) and next year he'll be moving out there with a fellow he's been corresponding with through Craigslist.

:slappy:
 
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