Top prospect Gholston had to grow up fast
By TIM GRAHAM
Palm Beach Post Staff Writer
Thursday, April 24, 2008
Every time he cradled him, his father was easier to pick up.
The son, barely sprouting facial hair, grew stronger. Dad became progressively weaker.
Vernon Nelson's body was withering because of an aggressive form of multiple sclerosis. Unable to move, he relied on his oldest boy to lift him from bed and ease him into a chair.
Nelson caught a cold, developed pneumonia and died in December 1999. He was 48.
The son was 13. Already physically impressive enough to be mistaken for an adult, Vernon Gholston suddenly had to be a man - taking care of himself and his little brother in Detroit while their mother, Cheryl, worked the General Motors assembly line.
"I always worked the afternoon shift so I could make sure my boys got to school in the morning, make sure they got home from school," Cheryl Gholston said. "From then on, Vernon was in charge."
Vernon Gholston now is 21, and to say he's all grown up would be an understatement.
Gholston is a 6-foot-4, 258-pound pass rusher from Ohio State who soon will become a multi-millionaire. Saturday, at the NFL Draft in New York, he'll learn which team will sign his checks.
Gholston is among the select group of six college players the NFL invited to attend the draft at Radio City Music Hall. As much as scouts and draft experts marvel at Gholston's sculpted body, they also praise his maturity.
The source of that composure is something not often discussed.
"It made me better, having to look after my brother," Gholston said. Brandon Gholston, 19, is studying mental health at Wayne County Community College in Michigan.
"It made me a more responsible and disciplined person," the older brother continued. "These are all the attributes that have helped me in football, to make me work hard and study my playbook and want to get better.
"It also was being a responsible adult off the field. A lot of kids come to college are just that, doing a lot of things and getting trouble."