I have to speak, because this is so frustrating.
1. The Reputation feature is not life or death. People who look at as life and death will be failures, not only here at BP, but in life. Get over yourselves.
2. The Reputation feature has little to do with the point of this thread. Yes, this thread is about how we can improve our site, but moreso in attempting to limit the apparent "reputation" that we have allegedly earned in the online communities. Racisim, Sexism, and the like will no longer be tolerated. The Rep. system isn't even a means to an end, it's more of a fun feature that can be utilized. If you don't like the rep. feature,
TURN IT OFF.
3. The masses need to realize that there will always be a Tibor and a TG05, or more than one of each. Tibs got his rocks off by baiting and stirring up the site. TG05, intentionally or not, makes extremely dumb posts. No offense, TG05, but it is true. I am truly amazed at the bulk of your posts, and unfortunately that isn't a compliment. But, everyone else needs to realize that this
will happen. Before TG05, there was donnyr. After him, there will be someone else. Personally, again, I see no problem with the way TG05 has been treated...especially after reading his complaints in this thread. The fact that 99% of the posters here do not want to tolerate idiocy is the reason BP is special and different. I do not believe all posters should be treated the same, and I do not believe that we should go easier on idiots who break the rules or choose to make unfound statements with no proof. If we start to tolerate this, then the overall quality of the entire site will slide into obscurity.
***I am
not saying that BP is going this route, or that anyone wants it to, as I know full well that Clarity does NOT. But, this needs to be kept in check. I understand there have been problems with noobs being treated harshly, according to other posters in this thread. This is not what I am addressing here.***
4. Senior members need to realize that there is a difference between a TG05esque post, and noob making a mistake out of ignorance. A little tolerance, I believe, will go a long way to reducing our so-called "elitist" reputation. As has been mentioned earlier in this thread (way earlier), begin to utilize PM's instead of dings on new members making these types of mistakes. Mod's can merge duplicate threads with a "heads-up" PM to the offender noob. If all of us make an extra 1% effort in this area, the problem
will be solved. Is 1% too much to ask?
5. As 21 pointed out in the posts he deleted above, baiting and open insults do not need to be a problem here anymore. If two posters want to get into a knockdown match, do it via PM. (Thump, I'll PM you in a minute..
) Obviously, I have been guilty of this myself. This is something that will happen occasionally regardless, just given the nature of the myriad of personalities and subject matter on this board. But obvious baiting, Tiboresque attempts at pot-stirring, and flagrant provocation will not be tolerated.