...You ever have to worry about a constitutional amendment banning fat people from getting married to other fat people?...
Sorry, but I couldn't let this one stand (you know me :) ). What the proposed ammendment would do would be to clearly define existing marital practices. Since people presently cannot marry others of the same sex (except in Massachussetts) the ammendment would simply clarify that for people that are trying to do that sort of thing. In effect, it's the gay people that are trying to change or create new law that would allow them to marry others of the same sex. As it is, and as it would be under such an ammendment, gay people can marry other gay people, provided they marry a gay person that is of the opposite gender.
Now then, since I seem to be the only person that can admit to watching the show, I felt their remarks during the show were acceptable. First thing I'd like to point out, is that the remark made to a contestant that he should wear a dress and look more like a women, was probably a help to their career.
That person (who is not the one that's been pictured in this thread) had auditioned for the show in a previous season. The guy acted in a very effeminate manner, and continually chose to sing songs performed by female artists. So while people may not appreciate Simon's directness, he was actually doing the contestant a favor. That person
clearly did not have the talent to be an american Idol. If he were to make a living singing, then his best chance would be to do so as a female impersonator.
Now then, as to the pictured contestant, initially knowing his gender was difficult. He dressed like a girl, had female mannerisms and hairstyle. His voice was very androgynous. In fact, he looked as though he had already undergone hormone treatments and appeared as though he might already be on a program towards getting a sex change.
Really though, anyone that watches the show realizes that the people that make the show, and are not talented, do so because of some sort of distinguishing trait that makes them unique or different than the others. It's also quite clear that many of the gay contestants that make the show do so because they are very OUT there. They all think they have rock star talent, are extremely flambouyant, and think that every person should love them because they are such wonderful and unique people. The problem is that they don't realize they often have little to no talent, and when they hear that from the judges they freak out, scream, and cry. Then they usually go and get hugs from their mommies and sisters. It looks as though their family members coddle them so much to protect them, that when they do encounter reality, it is very disturbing to them and they are unable to handle it.
If these people were serious contestants they would do things differently. They would pick gender appropriate songs. They would look, dress, and act in a gender appropriate manner. And most importantly, they would actually take singing lessons prior to auditioning. Look, I have little doubt that Clay Aiken is gay, yet he's still a star. He's not a star because his mommy tells him that he's a star or because he sings Whitney Houston songs... he's a star because he composes himself in a professional manner, dresses appropriately, sings appropriate songs, and let's his talent show for itself.