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Hey Rugby,

I had no idea you were separated from your wife and I am sorry to hear that.

I agree with Sushi's idea, if you act like you don't care it will burn inside of her. Especially if she knows you have moved on.....


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RugbyBuck said:
My soon to be, but not yet, ex-wife has asked me to take our kids tomorrow night from 7 until around 11:15. Do I ask her what she'll be doing and with whom she'll be with, etc.? I admit that I'm curious, but the satisfaction of not asking her figuring that she wants me to ask may win out.
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RugbyBuck said:
My soon to be, but not yet, ex-wife has asked me to take our kids tomorrow night from 7 until around 11:15. Do I ask her what she'll be doing and with whom she'll be with, etc.? I admit that I'm curious, but the satisfaction of not asking her figuring that she wants me to ask may win out.
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Maybe a casual passing question, such as "Dinner and a movie, eh?". It's always good to be at least semi-civil yet not pushy until the divorce gets finalized. Also, it's a good idea to know what's going on with her while you're still married because that can be your ace in the hole in case she decides to get stupid in the divorce procedings.
 
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tyrus3 said:
I would offer to keep them until the next day.


You could say: "not a problem. matter of fact, go have fun and come pick them up in the morning. That way you dont have to worry about being home at a certain time and you can stay out all night"

That would be a little curveball and she might volunteer the info you are looking for. Maybe her reply would be: "that is ok, I am going to bingo" :ohwell:
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I would follow tyrus3's advice. Acting like you don't care and are completely ok with whatever it is she is doing is bound to aggravate. As tyrus said, she may even volunteer the details about her plans.
 
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RugbyBuck said:
My soon to be, but not yet, ex-wife has asked me to take our kids tomorrow night from 7 until around 11:15. Do I ask her what she'll be doing and with whom she'll be with, etc.? I admit that I'm curious, but the satisfaction of not asking her figuring that she wants me to ask may win out.
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if your divorce goes the norm, she will get money from you, so prepare yourself by giving her $20 when she drops the children off and tell her "not a minute past 11:15". this should provide a civil way of proving that you have moved on, but still allow you to get a little jab in
 
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scarletandgrey said:
I say ignore her but when you pick up the kids have an escort with you in really skimpy clothes, Then say "Honey I would like you to meet your replacement".
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yeah I like that scarletandgray!!!! then you should say "I'm in a hurry, we have to get over to the lions den to rent some Porn dvd's and I got to get mine just like you do. "we are almost divorced"


Naw, being real the suspense will kill her if u act like you don't care either way
 
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Rugby, Man, I'm sorry to hear about your impending divorce. That really sucks to hear.

Now, as for how to handle Friday night, as so many others have suggested, I think I would try to play it cool and act as though you don't care where she's going. Enjoy the time with your kids.

Keep close track of time though, if she comes home a minute later than 11:15, you can give her a bill for your time during the divorce hearing. :biggrin:
 
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I agree with whoever it was that said "tell her to just pick them up in the morning". Take them to a late movie or whatever. Enjoy the time, with our legal system you are probably going to get screwed out of a lot of it once the divorce is final.
 
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