And it wouldn't be the first time that someone did something considered heroic that unintentionally drew the attention of the media to themselves, only to have that spotlight illuminate their private lives in an unflattering way. As far as we know, this young woman did nothing to create the situation with the intruder. She probably saved her child's life, as well as her own. As a reward, every possible detail of her formerly private life will now be fodder for scrutiny by countless strangers, us included.
Wasn't there a story of some guy--possibly during one of the many attempts on Gerald Ford's life--who stopped one of the attackers, was hailed a hero, then had it become public knowledge (against his wishes) that he was gay? Tricky thing, fame.