Big Papa;744955; said:No, you are saying that.
Then why would I be kidding myself about not saying something about the group of muslims that were praying on the airplane?
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Big Papa;744955; said:No, you are saying that.
Deety;744947; said:It wasn't until later that I realized that I'd been making such a stupid assumption, and that it was so ingrained that I'd even foolishly applied it to someone I knew for an absolute fact didn't fit it. Just stupid.
buckeyefool;744959; said:Then why would I be kidding myself about not saying something about the group of muslims that were praying on the airplane?
Big Papa;744997; said:OK, here's a scenario for you. Say you are an Air Marshall on an airplane flying out of JFK to LAX, you see a group of Middle Eastern looking individuals a few rows up from you, they are all talking quietly amongst each other and them begin praying aloud. Do you keep a particular eye on them?
buckeyefool;745003; said:If I am a air marshal yes....but it is my job as an air marshal to keep an eye on eyeryone so not sure why it would be relevant since it would be part of my job to keep an eye and them and every other person on the plane.
Bucky Katt;744965; said:So.....you're saying you were racist against jocks?
Pretty lousy example... that's like asking if you're worried about Ghandi picking a fight with you on a subway.Big Papa;745010; said:But if you saw a group of nuns praying, you would keep a particular eye on them as well?
Deety;744947; said:Yikes, this thread has gone all over the place. So much for trying to fit things into the flow of conversation... this is the part I want to discuss... so I'll just toss it in here.
Check my math, please.
Black = hip/hop = basketball Hip/hop = crime = gangsters Hoods = athletically gifted = rappers = gangsters I want to make sure I have this right...
Hoods = athletically gifted = Black = hip/hop = rappers = gangsters = crime = basketball
Therefore, the NBA is full of thugs and wannabe gangsters.
Iam, are you really, really sure you stand behind "your take" here? I know two NBA players who don't fit this stereotype, but it is just as ridiculous to generalize based on them, or I'd assume every NBA player lived in a quiet house in the mountains and liked to host dinner parties with their wives and sing Christmas songs to large groups.
Assigning attributes to groups based on the actions or reputation of an individual here and there isn't all that logically sound in the first place. But to generalize so broadly requires mixing in assumptions and underlying perceptions... that's where it's worth stopping to think about those perceptions.
It's tough to get around assumptions you don't know you have. I prided myself on having friends in many groups in high school and college - the band members, cheerleaders, drama, academic clubs, etc. Wouldn't ever date a "jock," though. Someone tried to set me up with a football player in college - someone who happened to have gone to my high school, though she didn't know that. I turned him down; just didn't have much interest in people who were so interested in the physical that they didn't care to develop themselves spiritually or mentally. It wasn't until later that I realized that I'd been making such a stupid assumption, and that it was so ingrained that I'd even foolishly applied it to someone I knew for an absolute fact didn't fit it. Just stupid.
I'd like to see less defensiveness in these types of discussions and more self-examination. Constantly reevaluation our viewpoints is how we grow.
Big Papa;744828; said:Good God, you just won't quit will you Grad. Give me one example of a racist comment I made.
osugrad21;745116; said:When did I ever call you a racist? If we are not reading between the lines of your posts, you should not read between the lines of mine.
jimotis4heisman;746236; said:anyone else listen to the herd today?