I am so, so sorry, BKB. We've talked privately about this, so I knew that she didn't have much time. You never want to hear that the end is near. I remember the exact day that I found out my dad was terminal. And toward the end (his last few days), I couldn't even see him because it hurt too damn much -- I wanted to remember the healthy dad, the one that recognized me and wasn't so drugged up. (I was in high school and the time, so I, selfishly, was too immature to really understand my poor decision making). I really, really regret not being with him, because I don't get that back -- and I will live with that guilt for the rest of my life. It's great that you've spent so much time with your mother. That's the best that you could have done for her. What a strong lady, and lucky to have you as her son. I will say a prayer for her (and your family) tonight.