Nixon: "When people talk about these "curses", they're usually talking about the flukish chokes. Well OSU and the Red Sox had the same number of "chokes"."
No, they're not - curses are coincided with length of futility. Cubs fans claim to be "cursed," and they haven't even had a single close call since 1908. Not a single one. If someone used your rationale, the Yankees would be more "cursed" with close calls in '01 and '03 than the Cubs. The Red Sox' curse is accentuated by, not defined by, kick to the nuts close calls over that span.
And as far as the Red Sox are concerned, the Sox were the dominant team in baseball at the turn of the century. They had the most championships (5) with the World Series win in 1918, and then they trade the best player in the game to the Yankees, don't win another one for 86 years (and counting), and watch the Yanks win 26 Titles in that time. It looks, smells, & acts like a curse to me.