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Spielmans face another bout with cancer
Stefanie insists that Chris not put his career on hold again
Wednesday, January 26, 2005
Stefanie Spielman
Six years later, they were having the same painful conversation.
This time, Stefanie Spielman insisted that her husband not put his career on hold because of her illness.
Last summer, just as Chris Spielman took over as Columbus Destroyers coach, Stefanie found out her cancer had returned for the third time.
In 1998, when Stefanie was first diagnosed with breast cancer, Chris took a year off from his NFL career to tend to his wife.
"It’s like deja vu," Stefanie said. "He’s like, ‘Maybe I shouldn’t coach.’ It was like when he said, ‘I shouldn’t play.’
"I said, ‘Hold it right here. We’re not doing that again.’ "
Stefanie said that’s because the circumstances are different now. Six years ago, the Spielmans were in Buffalo, N.Y., far away from their families. Now, Stefanie’s sister lives five houses away and her mother is staying with the family for a while.
Stefanie is undergoing chemotherapy after taking part in an unsuccessful clinical trial last summer.
"That’s why I feel so passionate about fund-raising," she said, referring to the Stefanie Spielman Fund for Breast Cancer Research, which has raised about $2.5 million. "Sometimes it works and sometimes it doesn’t."
A month ago, Chris said, she got test results that showed the cancer had not spread beyond the original site. "It could be worse," he said. "It’s just that the treatment is hard." One reason Chris decided to stick with coaching is that he can control his hours. "It’s really important to me that he has his outlet because cancer doesn’t just affect the patient," Stefanie said. The Destroyers also provide an outlet for her and the four Spielman children. "It’s something fun I can share with the kids," she said. "It’s something other than cancer." — Bill Rabinowitz