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I believe some of your perceptions and opinions may be somewhat misguided. I am a graduate student at Fisher-Ohio State and attended Yale for undergraduate. I grew up in Cincinnati and pretty close to Miami Univ.
Ohio State is a research powerhouse that believes bigger is better, not better is better. Ohio State's rise in prominence is a recent phenomenon that is likely occuring because Ohio State's leadership and policy making coupled with its economies of scale (bigger means more synergy and power) is building momentum.
Ohio State is an A&M Big 10 school that is only beginning to realize dividends that Miami has enjoyed for practically a sesquicentennial. Yes, great job for recently improving however what about the last 150 years? Be respectful to your older brothers, regardless of if they now resent your newly founded rise in stature according to other higher education peers.
The Virginia-Ohio analogy is good that was previously cited. I think Texas might also be a good example.
Virginia: Miami is analogous to William & Mary, Ohio State is analogous to a hybrid of VA Tech and UVA
Texas: Miami is analogous to Rice University, Ohio State is analogous to Texas-Austin.
For an "ivy league" experience and quasi-environment, Miami does deliver although Oxford, Ohio is an insular and sheltered community that has a niche with middle class, upper middle class, and affluent 18-22 year olds.
I would have enjoyed attending Miami. They are not on the same dimension (compare their MAC athletic budget to OSU's Big 10) and they serve a different niche so support your in-state brothers.
MI