Published Tuesday October 28, 2008
Coaches shared lives and homes
BY MITCH SHERMAN
WORLD-HERALD BUREAU
LINCOLN - Carl Pelini's voice drifted into that unmistakable tone - coachspeak, it's called - as the Nebraska defensive coordinator began to discuss the relationships in play as the Huskers prepare to visit Oklahoma.
Carl Pelini, Bo Pelini and Bob Stoops.
"You don't think about who you're coaching against," he said. "It doesn't affect anything."
But soon, his words slowed. Pelini's inflection softened. The coachspeak disappeared.
It is impossible to deny, he said, the connection between Oklahoma, under Bob Stoops, and the new Nebraska, with Carl's brother, Bo Pelini, as head coach.
Their families grew up together, intertwined because of sports and school and the bond formed during two decades on the south side of Youngstown, Ohio. Stoops, 48, is the second oldest of four boys in a family of six children. Pelini, 40, is the youngest of eight, including five boys.
"It's pretty unique, I would agree," Carl Pelini said. "I shouldn't try to compare it to other friendships we've made in this profession. But at the same time, you've got to try to set that aside. We've got a game to play."
Oh, yes, the game. Set for Saturday night at 7 in Norman, Okla., it makes for an interesting backdrop as two of Youngstown's favorite sons take center stage.
Stoops, with 104 victories in nine-plus seasons at OU, and Pelini, in his first year in charge at Nebraska, are closer than you might imagine for two men separated in age by 7 years, 3 months and 3 days.
They never played together at Cardinal Mooney High School, where Bob (class of 1978) and Bo (class of '86) both starred in football and basketball. In fact, Bob graduated with Bo's oldest brother, Vince. Bo ran mainly with Bob's youngest brother, Mark, now the defensive coordinator under Mike Stoops at Arizona.
But the two future Big 12 leaders crossed paths often.
"To understand it," Bo Pelini said, "you've got to look at the community."
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