DubCoffman62
Lazy Slob
I have a female friend that works as a server at one of the upscale restaurants around the Peoria Sports complex here in the Phoenix area, it's right on the border of Sun City which is a conclave of old, wealthish, almost entirely white people. She's an ultra-liberal and was wearing an Obama pin on her uniform during the last presidential election. She was whining that people were rude to her and even though her service was good, her tips her lousy. No shit sherlock! When it comes to earning a living sometimes you have set certain principles aside and do what you have to do. I told her that if she was smart she would have worn a Romney pin, doesn't have to vote for him but at least she would have been playing to her audience. Fair or not I tip my server not only on the service but also on whether or not I like him or her. I don't care if you give me stellar service, if you annoy me your tip is going to be in the 15-20% range. I always tip 50% if I like you, that's how i roll.Black folks object to having to "act white" to get work. I get it. But as someone who sells professional services, I've had to call on racists and swallow my tongue when they spouted off some objectionable thing or other about black folks, and I've had to call on homophobes and on, frankly, crooks, and had to prevent myself from saying something that would prevent my company from getting work. Unfortunately, the business world often requires dressing, talking and acting in ways that we would prefer not to. Sometimes that may mean "talking like a white person," other times it means removing that tongue ring, removing the rainbow bumper sticker or concealing the tattoo.
None of that is racist; it's just business. Smart black folks (and smart gay folks, and smart Jews, and so on) understand that, don't whine, suck it up and thrive. Those who wish to be victims are the ones who generally piss off white non-racists who just want to get work done.
Having said all this, nobody should think I'm minimizing the effects of racism that still exists.
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