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[quote='BusNative;86763;0]The opportunity is DEFINITELY not there for everyone in the bottom 20% - probably not even most or many.[/quote]
While it isnt handed to everyone with exact dirrections on how to better themselves, it can be earned if you take the time to work towards it. And that is why we have many of the problems we have today. because people feel this way but dont do anything to help themselves. It would have been so easy for me to just say "well my family has alwaysbeen poor" so i need handouts such as welfare or other government aid or just stuctk to the addage and Ill change it somewhat, "a poor man can't get ahead" or "i was born poor, so i will die poor" Granted I am white and APPLIED myself and took challenging classes in high school so that I might have the oportunty to go to college.
Are all schools the same? definately not and this is an area I would like to see improved, but too many people use it as a crutch or an excuse to not try to improve. Just because you are in a bad situation, doesnt mean you have to continue to choose to make poor decisions and not try to change things, and no screaming racism and demanding aid is not "trying to change thigs"
My dad had an annual income of roughly 25,000 dollars which included pay for many hours of weekly overtime by working in a factory to raise a family of 5. I didnt want for anything such as food or clothes, but guess what, we sacrificed, we didnt eat out, we raised a garden and helped in the neighbors fields for not pay, but a cow or afew pigs. We went to thrift stores or garage sales for clothes. In doing so my dad has been able to save for a substancial retirement -- currently over 100000 dollars from investing over 25 years. Now that all of us kids have moved out my parents are able to do things if they choose, but it was because of hard work and perserverence instead of demanding federal government support. My parents never collected welfare or applied fr any government aid other than reduced lunches at school. Whether people want to believ it or not It can be done through HARD WORK, something i dont think toom many are willing to do any more.
I am 25 now, I bought a house 2 years ago w/out a cosigner w/ a fixed rate APR at 5.6%. I have no other debt (by choice, and sacrifice). I invest 13% of my miilitay income into a retirement account, and pay a full 10% tithe at church, I donate time and money to charitable organizations. My brother closed on a home at the age of 21 , paid off his 01 Dodge Ram 4x4 longbead P/U; all while working at an automotive factory w/ no degree. I am not saying any of this to say look at me or I'm better than you, but to show that IF you Go out of your way and instead of looking for Pity on yourself and your situation, anything is possible. It may require you to sacrifice and not live a life of luxury , or like your neighbor. IE "keep up with the Jones's"
While it isnt handed to everyone with exact dirrections on how to better themselves, it can be earned if you take the time to work towards it. And that is why we have many of the problems we have today. because people feel this way but dont do anything to help themselves. It would have been so easy for me to just say "well my family has alwaysbeen poor" so i need handouts such as welfare or other government aid or just stuctk to the addage and Ill change it somewhat, "a poor man can't get ahead" or "i was born poor, so i will die poor" Granted I am white and APPLIED myself and took challenging classes in high school so that I might have the oportunty to go to college.
Are all schools the same? definately not and this is an area I would like to see improved, but too many people use it as a crutch or an excuse to not try to improve. Just because you are in a bad situation, doesnt mean you have to continue to choose to make poor decisions and not try to change things, and no screaming racism and demanding aid is not "trying to change thigs"
My dad had an annual income of roughly 25,000 dollars which included pay for many hours of weekly overtime by working in a factory to raise a family of 5. I didnt want for anything such as food or clothes, but guess what, we sacrificed, we didnt eat out, we raised a garden and helped in the neighbors fields for not pay, but a cow or afew pigs. We went to thrift stores or garage sales for clothes. In doing so my dad has been able to save for a substancial retirement -- currently over 100000 dollars from investing over 25 years. Now that all of us kids have moved out my parents are able to do things if they choose, but it was because of hard work and perserverence instead of demanding federal government support. My parents never collected welfare or applied fr any government aid other than reduced lunches at school. Whether people want to believ it or not It can be done through HARD WORK, something i dont think toom many are willing to do any more.
I am 25 now, I bought a house 2 years ago w/out a cosigner w/ a fixed rate APR at 5.6%. I have no other debt (by choice, and sacrifice). I invest 13% of my miilitay income into a retirement account, and pay a full 10% tithe at church, I donate time and money to charitable organizations. My brother closed on a home at the age of 21 , paid off his 01 Dodge Ram 4x4 longbead P/U; all while working at an automotive factory w/ no degree. I am not saying any of this to say look at me or I'm better than you, but to show that IF you Go out of your way and instead of looking for Pity on yourself and your situation, anything is possible. It may require you to sacrifice and not live a life of luxury , or like your neighbor. IE "keep up with the Jones's"
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