Learnin’ to love Chad again
By Chick Ludwig | Thursday, September 4, 2008, 11:46 AM
RAY-RAY TELLS CHAD:
‘PUT MIND ON GOD’
& APPRECIATE YOUR
BLESSING AS NFL STAR
RAY LEWIS MENTORS
MANY PLAYERS; CHAD’S
ONE OF HIS LOYAL DICIPLES
We know they’re as “thick as thieves” … as close as a razor blade on a face full of shaving cream … as tight as Ludwig drums.
So it comes as no surprise that Baltimore linebacker Ray Lewis has made a significant impact on the life of the Cincinnati Bengals wide receiver formerly known as Chad Johnson, who legally changed his name to Chad Javon Ocho Cinco.
Chad turned to Ray-Ray, who told him to turn to “God.”
Hey, whatever helps ya get through the day, man. I’m all for it.
Had Chad asked my advice — after all, I’m the Bengals’ pseudo alumni relations director and part-time safeties coach — I could’ve saved him some cash on his cell phone bill.
All he had to do was go down a few lockers to tight end Reggie Kelly, who is the club’s resident “Prince in Gym Shoes.”
LUDWIG AT LARGE wants to know from loyal readers: Will you cheer for Chad? Do you forgive his offseason “antics?” Will you accept him back as a fan favorite? Will you wear his Bengals’ jersey to the stadium? Will we learn to — ahem — love “85” again?
Q. Did you talk some sense into Chad?
A. Of course, whatever was personal, what he didn’t want to me to share, I won’t. But what I will share is that I just told him to put his mind on God. He should focus more on God and the true blessings you have to be a role model for so many kids, so many people who want to do what you do and can’t do what you do and don’t have the ability to do what you do. So I told him every time you step out on the football field, every time you step anywhere in life let the image of God be shown through you. Let that be your image, let that be your stepping stone. After that, life is going to bring you ups and downs. Life is going to bring you differences and after you’ve prayed about it, let them be. There’s certain things, don’t take everything to everybody, because everybody can’t handle everything that you feel sometimes, even good or bad. A lot of times I try to explain to people all the training I do, but sometimes you can’t. You can’t get it across to people. That was the same message I relayed to him and a couple of other guys around the league that were going through the same thing. I was like: Keep your peace. Let the business side of the business side take care of itself, but keep your peace and always stay who Chad is, and that’s just loving the game of football, and that, in a nutshell, is pretty much what I told him.
Q. What motivated you to give him a call?
A. There’s no one reason to give him the call, we always talk. It’s been three or four years since Chad’s been with Cincinnati we’ve had the same type of conversation. It’s like a father to children, sometimes you have to let them go off and do their own thing and just be there for him. That’s the same situation I have this time. We talk every other day. I try to keep him up in his Bible, keep him up in His Word, I send him scriptures just to try to pull him over every day, pull us through every day. Just like the calls I send out to many guys. They say, ‘Give me a word, talk to me or whatever.’ These are the things I try to reach out and give back to most of these guys.
Q. Have you turned into a mentor for other players?
A. Absolutely. You can’t shy away from it. That’s one of the things that even (Baltimore head coach) John Harbaugh’s father spoke about. He told a couple of different stories about why do you play this game? If you realize that I’ve only played this game for the respect, for the respect of your peers, for the respect of the people that you play with and things like that. That respect, coming from them knowing that I’m the person that’s been in this league for a long time and has excelled in so many different areas. I’ve been through down times in my life, I’ve been challenged in my life but I’ve found a way to trust God completely through it all and so if that’s my role as a man to relate God’s word and get the Word out there that you take everything to him and just live. If that’s my job, then I’m definitely excited about doing it.
Q. Has Chad taken your advice to heart?
A. Absolutely. Absolutely. And all you have to do is watch him. He’s Chad and that’s what I told him. Don’t stop being Chad. Be Chad. But when Chad has got something to say that Chad wants to say, keep it to Chad. Keep it to Chad and God and let everything else take care of itself. Don’t get into all of these war of words with whoever it is. I don’t care who it is. If it’s somebody out on the street that wants a war with you then, ‘OK, brother, you win. I’m good. I’ll smile.’ But these are the things that he has grabbed onto to say that life is life. Life is good. I can be a true role model to some people and show people what life is about and when you really challenge yourself to be great every day. For me, just his talent alone proves that he wants to be the best in this game. You can’t ever hate him for wanting to be the best in this game and wanting to win. A lot of times you get the bad side of people when those two things aren’t happening and Chad is one of those people.
Q. What do you think of Chad’s name change to Chad Javon Ocho Cinco?
A. I kind of knew about that before anybody ever thought about it. People do that all of the time. Didn’t John Wayne do that? Yeah. So some of the great ones have done that. I don’t think it’s a big issue. It’s publicized everywhere but it’s whatever it is. If that’s the way he feels he wants to be called then let him go by that. Muhammad Ali was one of the greatest ever and he did the same thing. So whatever belief he has just roll with it and deal with you as a man, deal with you and God and everything else will take care of itself.