Oh8ch;1200107; said:Not to go OT, but I have a serious problem with this application of the registered sex offender status. If he was having sex with a 12 year old I wont argue that was wrong. But it was teenage hormones and very poor judgment. There is almost certainly nothing in this incident that would indicate he is a risk to commit forcible rape or molest a child at a later age.
Yet he will pop up in the database right along with the 40 year old man who molested his 8 year old nephew and the 50 year old who surfs the net looking for 16 year old girls. It is not remotely how the designation should be used.
Check out this link and do the math:
Couple celebrates 80th wedding anniversary - Wonderful World - MSNBC.com
Today the guy goes to prison.
Agree 100% with the statements of the sexual predator label being applied to someone in this situation. I worked at Childrens Services for 10 years and dealt with countless situations similar to this one, wehre a 16-17 year old gets strung up for having sex with a more than willing 12-13 year old that you could put on a college campus and she would fit right in. Never did, and never will condone such actions, but would be very hesitant to crucify as well. Sexual predator labels should go to true pedophiles or criminal rapists who force an unwilling or underage person.
I'll use myself as an example. There are 6 years age difference between me and the Mrs. Looking back at what she looked like when she was 14-15 years old, your damn right I'd wanna get on that when I was 20-21. Realistically, that could have happened, I could have gone to prison for 2-5, registered as a sex offender, began dating her, and ultimately marrying her and having a family, and I'd still be wearing the offender tag right on my forehead.
Anyway, my best wishes to the Torrence family and glad that things turned out well for DeVoe. I'd still love to see him in the S&G, but more importantly, would love to see him see this whole ordeal as a learning experience, and LEARN from it. DeVoe has his whole life in front of him, and it should be a very good one if he chooses the right paths.
Peace.
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