Warning: you may want to avoid reading this post because it almost definitely will do the opposite of alleviating your pain.
When I was watching last Saturday, I couldn't help having the thoughts that the Horns were a much better team and the Buckeyes were good, but with the assistance of a lot of luck. I know we fans are obsessed with a few decisions and mistakes here and there. But I felt like we were lucky it was just a 1-point loss. Could we have won? Sure. If the FG hits, or one of the two 4th-down stops happens, or one of the fumbles bounces our way, or ... you get the picture.
Jay made a great first play that gave us 3 points. Cool! But then the freaky INT by Jaylen and the dropped pass by Wingo. That's 14 points gifted to the Buckeyes.
Then the Horns stopped their charity mode, and the fourth quarter happened. I would love to blame Day, Matty P, and A. Smith too. I just don't think it's fair. I want to blame Sayin, or even JJ, and others. But the truth is, they have performed admirably in an extremely competitive environment.
My realization is that none of us gave Texas enough credit. I think, as a team, they're much better than us, more than one score better. If it were a neutral site and without those funky plays, they'd win by around 7 points.
Had the FG scored and we won, I'd feel much better, of course, but it probably wouldn't change my mind that Texas was a better team and lost because the game is played on the field and weirder things have happened.
So, to me, I don't think the coaches did a particularly bad job last Saturday, and I am adjusting my expectations moving forward. I am still confident the team can grow into a championship-caliber team coming playoff time. The error margin is narrower now, for sure, and let's see how the team responds.