I see what they're trying to argue, but I don't think their utopian hopes are very realistic. Jimmy isn't going to stop beating up on his little brother because it's the right thing to do.So when a child gets in a bind, he or she might do the right thing to keep from a spanking rather than figuring out the best decision independently, added Gershoff, who was not involved in Straus's current study.
By this train of thought, you shouldn't use timeout, grounding or consequences (lost things/events) either, because then the kid would be avoiding that bad situation rather than doing the right thing.
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