osubuckeyes2731;1518342; said:
I've stated what my main point is. I respect everyone's opinion. I guess DaddyBigBucks feels like I'm questioning his authority when I am simply responding to his false claims about me. There isn't much more I can say or do because responding to this has gotten me in trouble. I think this has been a really good discussion, and I wish I could have it in person where I could put my main point across more clearly and not feel like my point is being lost. I love this place more than any other website and I am on here more than any other place, but I feel like my opinions are being suppressed right now instead of being respected. I am respecting everyone else's opinion here and trying to have a good discussion but am being penalized. And that is not whining, that is the truth. I'm not trying to get on anyone's bad side; in fact, that is the last thing I want. I just wanted to clarify my main point and defend the false claims against me.
For someone who has stated that others are 'putting words' in his mouth, the first bolded statement seems like quite an assumption to me. FYI, DBB acted as a moderator and issued a warning because you broke a clear-cut rule of posting on BP. You weren't 'simply responding to false claims' - you were whining about being dinged.
What you apparently called 'being penalized' was a warning for complaining about negative reputation comments. Also, DBB issued a warning, rather than an infraction that accumulates points, so he cut you some slack.
Also as an FYI, 'Arguing with moderators' is another board rule. Just to be clear, I'm not saying you've done that yet, I'm just letting you and others know that it's something else to avoid. Allow me to clarify that somewhat. Debating the content/opinion within a post that happens to have been made by a moderator is fine - but arguing on the board about a decision made by a moderator/admin is what would constitute a violation. I'm really not trying to give you more grief here, I'm trying to clarify the way that works in order to help you and others avoid potential pitfalls in the future.
In other words, it's fine to debate the opinion posted by someone like myself or DBB or BKB in this thread, but to argue about a decision made regarding a board rule is not allowed. If you feel something unjust occurred via a moderator decision, handle it via PMs, rather than on the board.
You've posted your opinions on the topic. Some agree with much of what you say, others feel it's too negative. Opinions differ, that's going to happen, and some of the discussion in this thread has been fairly good.
But in my opinion (yes, this is my opinion - not any words I'm putting into anybody else's mouth, and not an action as a board moderator), there's been some whining and some portayal of oneself as a victim, and a lot of us around here will react strongly to that.