My thoughts are with you Kinch, I've been blessed with animals I'd hate to lose. When it happens, I know it will be tough. Good luck and rest easy.
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OhioState49
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hey man, sorry bout your loss, will you be getting another dog soon? that could help.
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NewYorkBuck
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Hang in there Kinch. I know what you are feeling. Had some great dogs of mine pass as well. Good thing is after time, you only remember the good stuff.
My advice - go out and get a puppy or another dog - right away. Will it replace Gordon? Never - but he will be a welcome buddy to help take your mind off of your departed best friend.
My advice - go out and get a puppy or another dog - right away. Will it replace Gordon? Never - but he will be a welcome buddy to help take your mind off of your departed best friend.
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ArtilleryBuck
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Sorry to hear about your loss Kinch. Don't beat yourself up. It was just his time. Give yourselves some time, and then maybe you can find a Gordon JR.
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DEBuckeye
It ain't easy, bein' cheesy.
Sorry to hear about that kinch, I know how hard it is. From what you wrote, and the pictures you posted, Gordon (great name for a dog by the way) sounds and looks like he was a great dog. I think that Gordon loved you and trusted you to take care of doing whatever was best for him. It may feel like you "killed" him, but you didn't- the bloat did. You just saved him from terrible pain and misery, the way any best friend would.
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BayBuck
Buckeyes are best
Sorry for your loss, Kinch--but it sounds like Gordon was lucky to have parents who appreciated him as much as you did. Here are some guys who want to help cheer you up:
http://www.franklincountydogs.com/adoption/adoptSrch.asp
:)
http://www.franklincountydogs.com/adoption/adoptSrch.asp
:)
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Man, I hate losing dogs. I have had 4 dogs in my life. Thankfully I still have my 4th dog, even though he now lives with my mom since I just got married and we can't have him at my new house. But that will change soon I hope.
But I remember exactly what I was doing when the 1st 3 dogs passed away. My first dog Sparky passed when I was 9. An old black lab that died after 14 wonderful years. I just remember laying next to him and noticed he was moving anymore. My 2nd dog Smokey was a big lovable mix of Black Lab, Sheppard & Norwegian Elkhound. A great dog that lasted for 12 years. My older brother had to bring him in and I was heart broken. He ended up getting a tumor that prevented him from going to the bathroom anymore. It was best to bring him to the vet as you would hate to see your best friend suffer.
Then the last one, a black lab, Cindy, that we got during our 2nd dog. She was always funny as she would do everything Smokey would do but had no idea why. She was never the same when we had to move from our large 2 acre house to a smaller bungalow. She became blind and had little control of her bladder. She also started getting arthritis and being disoriented.
This one I remember the most because I had to take her in to the vet. She was 13 years old and I couldn't let her go as the doctor let me say the last goodbyes. I just totally lost it. I just remember what the vet told me. "She had a great life thanks to the love of you and your family."
My current dog Tanner is a mixed Terrier. We never could fins out what other breeds are in him. The only thing is he has the same goatee as me. He is 6 years old and will be loved like all the other 3 were and even more.
All I can say kinch is find another dog and put that love you had with Gordon into your next one as you have a gift to give another puppy that is waiting out there for an owner to love them.
But I remember exactly what I was doing when the 1st 3 dogs passed away. My first dog Sparky passed when I was 9. An old black lab that died after 14 wonderful years. I just remember laying next to him and noticed he was moving anymore. My 2nd dog Smokey was a big lovable mix of Black Lab, Sheppard & Norwegian Elkhound. A great dog that lasted for 12 years. My older brother had to bring him in and I was heart broken. He ended up getting a tumor that prevented him from going to the bathroom anymore. It was best to bring him to the vet as you would hate to see your best friend suffer.
Then the last one, a black lab, Cindy, that we got during our 2nd dog. She was always funny as she would do everything Smokey would do but had no idea why. She was never the same when we had to move from our large 2 acre house to a smaller bungalow. She became blind and had little control of her bladder. She also started getting arthritis and being disoriented.
This one I remember the most because I had to take her in to the vet. She was 13 years old and I couldn't let her go as the doctor let me say the last goodbyes. I just totally lost it. I just remember what the vet told me. "She had a great life thanks to the love of you and your family."
My current dog Tanner is a mixed Terrier. We never could fins out what other breeds are in him. The only thing is he has the same goatee as me. He is 6 years old and will be loved like all the other 3 were and even more.
All I can say kinch is find another dog and put that love you had with Gordon into your next one as you have a gift to give another puppy that is waiting out there for an owner to love them.
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A moving post and fine tribute to a great companion, kinch. My sincere condolences. Our golden retriever just turned 3 and a few months ago my wife and I were discussing longevity of 'larger' breeds. Miso is part Irish Wolfhound, but mostly golden, and weighs around 80 lbs. Anyway, when I mentioned the posibility that Miso would live 10 years or less, my wife about lost it. I am dreading the day we have to part with Miso, but can't dwell on it. As so many have said, saying goodbye is definately the hardest part about owning a (good) pet, but well worth it for the joy and companionship they provide.
RIP Gordon.
RIP Gordon.
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Buck Nasty
You'll have nothing and like it
I am sorry for your loss Kinch. There is not much I can say, but I know what you are feeling. It has been 3 yrs since we put our Golden down, and I still think about her nearly every day.
As someone else said, don't beat yourself up about making that decision. It hurts a lot, but you did save him from suffering more than you would have ever wanted to see him suffer.
You will think of him often, and the first couple weeks (for me) all I thought about was the last few seconds and her in my arms. But that will pass and you will think of all the good times.
Be thankful you got 11 great years with him, and know that nobody else could have loved him like you and your wife did. As much pleasure as he brought you in 11 years, you did the same for him.
As someone else said, don't beat yourself up about making that decision. It hurts a lot, but you did save him from suffering more than you would have ever wanted to see him suffer.
You will think of him often, and the first couple weeks (for me) all I thought about was the last few seconds and her in my arms. But that will pass and you will think of all the good times.
Be thankful you got 11 great years with him, and know that nobody else could have loved him like you and your wife did. As much pleasure as he brought you in 11 years, you did the same for him.
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Sorry for your loss, Kinch. Studies show that it is almost like losing a family member.
Our Border Collie is over 9 now. While he's in great shape, the thought of losing him enters my mind every time I see him. Celebrate the good times, man.
Our Border Collie is over 9 now. While he's in great shape, the thought of losing him enters my mind every time I see him. Celebrate the good times, man.
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