Wood, a fyi. 'that's the way it started', but when your kid (or any kid), starts posting some good times in whatever stroke, then the bug kicks in. Your child will get used to getting the medal/ribbon/lollipop/whatever, when they get awarded a first, and the fire to get better kicks in (for the parents as well). Ours started in summer swim, and she enjoyed standing on podium, so went 'year-round' ( and yeah, like you mentioned, a commitment is required. Dollars, plus # of days in the pool per week. Did all that, but the best coaches were still 25 miles away, and cut into study time. Anyway, swimming possibly best exercise one can get, and there are 'senior' swims after college for middle-agers, etc. PS, recollect that the pee-wee swimmers had the most fanatic parents. It gets better when swimmers age up, and talent/training take over. PSS, we used incentives, mostly her picking where we went to dinner if she posted two PBs (personal bests) in a meet. Net is that she raced against herself, striving to improve her times. Anyway, it's all good, and enjoy for you too will become an empty nester, and miss those crazy days in the sun.