I am nominally a skeptic on most things paranormal even though that is that part of me that
wants there to be truth to them just because of the wonder factor.
That being said I grew up in a house that more than a few people swear is haunted.
The house was built in the 1880s although it was extensively enlarged & remodeled by my great grandfather (no my father's side) in the 20s-30s. He died right after I was born in 71, my great grandmother moved out shortly afterwards into a smaller house and my dad bought the old house off of her.
It was a typical old house with creaks & groans. It was literally impossible to walk in the house without everyone downstairs hearing you moving around (which sucked when you're trying to sneak out as a teen!). However there were many times when you could hear someone walking around when no one else was home. Quite a few times I would have friends over, we would be playing in the basement and I would hear someone upstairs...I'd run up to see who was home and both front & back doors would still be locked. Or even better you would hear someone walking upstairs while you were on the first floor and they would ask who was home and I'd have to say "no one". Spooked a few friends that way. lol
My mom swears up and down that it was my great grandfather keeping watch over the house. I talked to my grandmother once about it before she died and she said "Dad put his entire life into that house, do you really think he'd leave it?". So who knows... *shrug*
Since my great grandfather died before I was walking I have no actual memories of him. However when I was very small I used to talk to my parents about Grandpa Fred (I was named after him). My mother says that I used to tell her that he would come and check on me every night at bedtime. I don't actually remember any of that so I have no idea how true it is.
Now I DO remember waking up one night with my grandfather on my mom's side (we were tight) sitting on the edge of the bed. We talked for awhile and I remember him saying that he had to go but that it was OK because there was someone else there to watch over me. I can remember being so sad when I went back to sleep. The next morning my parents told me that he had died during the night (he had been living in a nursing home with terminal lung cancer).
Now of course that last memory could have been something I dreamed later and just reordered it in my mind, I dunno. Either way I always felt safe in that house (except in the creepy attic lol) and was heartbroken when my dad sold it. The house itself always felt like family...so if it was haunted I have no complaints. :)
(I have one creepy story to add about the house later when I have time)
scooter1369;644536; said:
I don't think so. She never mentioned which room it was though.
Regardless it is a cool story. :)
scooter1369;644997; said:
Ghosts, on the other hand, I sincerely believe exist. I think there are spirits who linger here long after they should. I don't believe they are capable of causing harm to the living, nor do they want to. In fact I'm not sure they see us much more than we see them or have rational thought anymore. Maybe stuck in the last few minutes or days of their former life.
I'm not so sure I believe in ghosts in the sense of actual "spirits" that would fit most religious definitions (despite my story above). However I do believe it might be possible for energy to somehow be stored or transferred to an area. Since
everything is energy at its most basic level I have no problems accepting that an energy pattern caused by a living being could be recorded or imprinted.
Our views are probably pretty close just a matter of semantics.
Now I also
firmly believe that the vast majority of "paranormal" experiences can be attributed to physiological or psychological causes. Electromagnetic fields have been shown to create mental states similar to those reported by alien "abductees" or other phenomena. Low frequency sound waves can cause nausea and feeling similar to those typical of "hauntings" (thus my reply of "infrasonics" above...do a search on Vic Tandy & his research). Sleep Paralysis can also cause experiences that closely match those of various claimed experiences.
So while I acknowledge the possibility of phenomena that we can't quite explain at this time....I have no doubts that most experiences in the category can be explained.