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TDunk

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    • Any and all advice with dealing with a woman who has marriage on the brain? We've been engaged for 3 months and she has been pretty good about not involving me in crap I don't care about. But I do want to stick a dildo up pinterests ass. Some weird ideas have come up, but she is rational with most wedding concepts.

    Besides the "run" advice, any tips from seasoned vets?
     
    TDunk;2292101; said:
    Any and all advice with dealing with a woman who has marriage on the brain? We've been engaged for 3 months and she has been pretty good about not involving me in crap I don't care about. But I do want to stick a dildo up pinterests ass. Some weird ideas have come up, but she is rational with most wedding concepts.

    Besides the "run" advice, any tips from seasoned vets?
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    I'm not familiar with any "'rational' wedding concepts" that don't involve a courthouse and thousands of saved dollars.
     
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    Let her do her thing...it's amazing how something small of wedding prep can turn into an argument/fight.

    If she asks which thing you like, it's a trap. If you say one thing, they will say the other thing and then get upset why you chose the other.

    Weddings are a 1 day party the female gets to plan and prepare for. Let them chose what they want to do. I'm glad my wife and I did something very small at the beach. Practically no prep or planning, NO stress, and it ended up being an amazing time
     
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    TDunk;2292101; said:
    Any and all advice with dealing with a woman who has marriage on the brain? We've been engaged for 3 months and she has been pretty good about not involving me in crap I don't care about. But I do want to stick a dildo up pinterests ass. Some weird ideas have come up, but she is rational with most wedding concepts.

    Besides the "run" advice, any tips from seasoned vets?
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    I've been married to the same woman for 34 years. She is the most patient, forgiving human being on the face of the earth. (She is also the most beautiful 60-year-old I have ever put my eyes on.)

    I wish for you the second most patient, forgiving woman on the face of the earth. As for advice, I know better.
     
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    I see we've already covered "run". So there goes my wisdom.

    I found it best to just shake my head and in a positive way.
    Even better, find something really easy to contribute - make
    It look like you're interested. Do it pro-actively this way she
    Feels content you're helping.

    Afterwards, crack a beer...or six, you'll be attaching yourself
    To one vagina for the rest of your life very soon.
     
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    TDunk;2292101; said:
    Any and all advice with dealing with a woman who has marriage on the brain? We've been engaged for 3 months and she has been pretty good about not involving me in crap I don't care about. But I do want to stick a dildo up pinterests ass. Some weird ideas have come up, but she is rational with most wedding concepts.

    Besides the "run" advice, any tips from seasoned vets?
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    3 things

    1. She's always right at first blush. Try to avoid the arguments and get her to think about it. Snap decisions or decisions made when angry work out so well....

    2. As Mac said, let her plan the wedding. It's much easier.

    3. Enjoy it, but remember it's work. All relationships are.
     
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    TDunk;2292101; said:
    Any and all advice with dealing with a woman who has marriage on the brain? We've been engaged for 3 months and she has been pretty good about not involving me in crap I don't care about. But I do want to stick a dildo up pinterests ass. Some weird ideas have come up, but she is rational with most wedding concepts.

    Besides the "run" advice, any tips from seasoned vets?
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    Assume it's a life long decision and proceed cautiously. Weird ideas need further explanation.......:paranoid:
     
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    I got engaged last Feb, and our wedding is this June. I run my own business and did all of the legwork buying our house. When it came to the wedding, I told her I want to be involved in one thing - her telling me what time I need to be there. Of course, a bit of exaggeration in practice, but planning a wedding is simply something I dont have the time or energy for right now.
     
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    TDunk;2292101; said:
    Any and all advice with dealing with a woman who has marriage on the brain? We've been engaged for 3 months and she has been pretty good about not involving me in crap I don't care about. But I do want to stick a dildo up pinterests ass. Some weird ideas have come up, but she is rational with most wedding concepts.

    Besides the "run" advice, any tips from seasoned vets?
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    My wife is addicted to Pinterest now. I has gotten so bad that I've told her don't tell me where you found something unless it is from someplace other than Pinterest. I'm just glad that site wasn't around when we got married because that might have been enough to get me to "run".

    I think every couple and their families are different so it would be hard to get advice since you and your fiance are different than me an my wife were. A few points of advice.

    1) Don't have the wedding during OSU football season.
    2) She wants to discuss every little detail of the wedding, but she doesn't want your input, just to agree with her. The hard part is she will ask you a question and not let you know that only one answer is correct. If you can find a way to get her to let you know what she thinks before you give an answer you will save some time. If there is anything that you really want you can stick up for it, but you'll probably have to give in to pretty much everything else.
    3) The only bad weddings I've ever been to haven't had open bars. If the bar is an issue find a way to have some of the basics like vodka, rum, and a keg. There is a huge difference between no booze or some booze and some booze or a top shelf bar. Drunk people have fun at weddings.
     
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    Merih;2292158; said:
    My current longtime gf disclosed to me that she thinks an engagement ring is a waste of money and that she doesn't want one.

    I think I've got a keeper.
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    She says that now.... wait until her girlfriends start in on it.... trust me.. if it doesn't mean much to her, when your ready just buy a small nice one...it will prevent a lot of things...

    as for TDunk - first congrats, second just stay outta the way and let her do her thing, this is the thing most girl dream about since they were very little, so unless you have some financial stake in the wedding, just stay outta the way.
     
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