cincibuck
You kids stay off my lawn!
NightmaresDad;1201632; said:Why would someone send him away with a scowl, even if they think his situation is ultimately his own fault?
Doesn't mean they don't want what's best for the kid.
If he's told nothing is his own fault his whole life, he'll keep making the same mistakes.
I don't disagree with you or Grad on the you-can-lead-a-horse-to-water aspects of this incident. What I'm trying to say is that the values we middle class folks think of as universal are not. A kid who has not been exposed to our behavior, our decision making process, our approach to problems, probably doesn't a) value them b) understand them c) act on them. No surprise there.
When you add the rule bending that goes on with regard to athletes while they are in junior and senior high, rule bending by ADULTS, not the kid, and then you expect the kid to KNOW he can't break some rules, you've created a very confusing world.
What do I mean by rule bending? In the past ten years, years which would have "exposed" Clifford to how he is "suppossed to act," we have seen "students" move from school to school to follow a certain coach or avoid discipline that would interfere with their sports elgibility (OJ Mayo is a prime example), we have seen the travesty that was the gift giving, limo rides, Hummer ownership of LeBron James, the inability of OHSAA to enforce much of anything.
Clifford acting as if the law didn't apply to him, or in open defiance of the law, is dissappointing, but hardly unexpected. As the song from South Pacific goes, You Have to be Carefully Taught.
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