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Dad and my love of sports

My condolences to you too.

My Dad graduated from OSU in '72. I was born & raised in the Bronx, but I was raised a Buckeye because of him.

Eventually, when I went to & graduated from OSU, my proudest moment was being there with my Dad & accomplishing the same thing he did.
 
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Damn Dryden-you're making me choke up. My condolences. What is strange about my dad and Ohio State is that although he graduated in the fall of 68'-he never went to a Buckeye football game until he took me in 1992 when he got tickets somehow. He never went to the games, but he was friends w/ many of the players in the late 60's, and hung out w/ them in the dorms. He met Woody several times, and helped edit Jack Tatum's papers, as Jack and John Brockington lived next door to him. My dad made me love TOSU as a place, not just as a football team.
 
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My condolances to you and your family. Your post brought a tear to my eye. I know your perspective on life changes after a huge loss, and mine did as i almost lost my Dad a couple of years back. He was no longer the tryant that wouldn't let me have the car on a Saturday night, he is the guy that taught me how to throw a curve ball, change the oil, etc. When something tragic happens you remember the good rather than the bad, and that is how it should be. I am going to call my Dad right now. Thanks for sharing.
 
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Wow - what a wonderful and touching tribute to your father, Dryden. I can't relate to losing a parent, but I can tell that you had a great relationship with your Dad and will have countless memories to carry with you the rest of your days. It sounds like he was a great role model for you and your sisters, and for that, you are truly blessed.

Condolences from Colorado.

-FCollins
 
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Sorry to hear of your loss Dry

It is so difficult to deal with loss. My wife lost her dad to cancer when she was 15 and that has took a toll on her, so I could just imagine what your going through.

my prayers are with you
 
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Dryden-


Thoughts and prayers to you and your family. My mother is struggling with cancer right now, so I know I've thought about what life will be like when she's gone too. As already said, there are no words to console you at this time. But consider how happy your father is now thinking about how well you turned out, and also how much all of those things that you did together meant to you and contributed to what kind of person you have become. Every time someone remembers him, it is further testament to how much he meant to those close to him, and how the influences he had on you are not or will not be forgotten. Such is the true legacy that each and every person can leave, and it is clear he left that with you.

May the Lord bring you comfort at this time.
 
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I'm going to weigh in on the topic that Dry introduced: your most vivid memory of something Ohio State with your father.

I will start by giving some background: my father grew up on a farm in southern W. Va and played high school football in the early 40S. In those years, in that location, it was 7 on 7. He went to college in Kentucky (Berea) and (upon graduation) was drafted into the Army. He still talks about that awful, snowy weekend in a "pup tent" around Thanksgiving, 1950. We Buckeyes remember it today as The Snow Bowl.

He was discharged in 1952, married my mother in June, and together they drove to Columbus where he had been offered a grad assistant position in the engineering department. His brother took him to his first OSU football game that November ... against Michigan. It was OSU's first victory over Michigan in quite a while, and my father was hooked.

My first memory of anything Buckeye was being with him up in the rafters of St. John Arena during the Lucas/Havlicek era.

But the most vivid memory was the 1968 Purdue game. We were in C deck (Dad always said that there was never a bad seat in C deck) and everything was great. I remember Jack Tatum's hits on Mike Phipps and Leroy Keyes. I remember Bill Long scoring our one offensive touchdown. I also became aware of my father (every so often) shouting, "Go big team!" In my mind, it seemed that every time my Dad yelled that cheer, the Buckeyes would do something positive.

Deep down, aren't most all of us a little bit superstitious? I decided right then and there that I was going to be Woody's "12th man." For the rest of the game, under my breath, I whispered, "Go big team."

Over the years, I've accumulated many Buckeye memories. I've enjoyed raising my son as a Buckeye, and was blessed to be sitting with him at the huge OSU basketball victory over Illinois.

Thanks for giving me this opportunity to remember. Many people my age have lost a parent(s). I'm blessed that both are still alive. But regardless, we all still have our memories.
 
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