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Bentley's words drive title run by Rebels
By Bart Wright
SPORTS EDITOR
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Bentley corrected his speech then discovered the meaning of team.
They come by with increasing frequency these days, most of them wanting to watch game tape. Some of them ask for diagrams of plays, as if there's a secret hidden in there somewhere, some special way to line up or make a cut.
They want to see the little details, presumably so they can put the small pieces together and build their own champions.
What most of the high school coaches miss when they stop by to see Byrnes High School coach Bobby Bentley is the big picture.
They see the trees from all different angles, but they miss the forest.
Most of them don't talk to their football teams the way Bentley talks to his team, and after his second year as head coach, he thought he might lose that opportunity.
"I had won two games (in his first year, 1995), and then one game (his second season at Byrnes), and then I got a phone call from the principal," Bentley said.
Three wins in two years is probably not what any employer might desire from its football coach, but the message Bentley heard wasn't about his record; it was about the way he talked.
"Basically," Bentley said, "I was told I couldn't speak, that my subject-verb agreements were all wrong, I was using a lot of double negatives, things like that. I didn't realize it was that bad, but I promise you, it got my attention."
Bentley admits to being a little sensitive about his record, and hearing a principal tell him his job was being affected by the way he spoke "really woke me up."
These days, Bentley, whose team has won the last four state Class AAAA Division II football championships with a 57-2 record, has a lot of speaking engagements for a high school football coach. He has addressed the Nike Coach of the Year clinic in Orlando, Fla., the South Carolina coaches association; another group in Oregon flew him out for a speech, and he always has some well-chosen words for his football team.
That's where the forest comes in.
There were 67 players out for speed drills on the track last week prior to the time set aside for weight lifting. They gathered as groups of three in the stands before hitting the weights. As he looked up at them, Bentley was moved to rearrange what he saw.
"We got three black guys over here; we got three white guys over here," he said. "Let's get that fixed."
He called players by their first names, moving them into interracial groupings. Nobody grumbled or complained; everyone seemed to understand. He learned how to construct better sentences after that meeting in the principal's office years ago, and since then he's learned a special way of communicating with his team.
"It is at least as important as everything else we do, and it's probably more important than most things we do," Bentley said of the team-building concept he started in 1998. "There has to be a bond that goes beyond just being on the same team; everyone has that. The bond has to be deeper, and you can't get that when all the white guys hang together and all the black guys hang together.
"It's not just racial," he said. "I might throw a guy from a well-to-do family in with a guy from a family that doesn't have it so good; I'll put a quiet, reserved kid in with a loud, boisterous guy. The better you are able to understand these people on your team, the better chance everyone has of being your best buddy.
"That's the guy you'll stand up and fight for," Bentley said, "and that's what we want to be about."
When he started teaching himself how to break his old speech patterns ó "I used to say stuff like, 'I seen him at the mall,' or 'He's not nobody'" ó Bentley began listening to tapes of Dr. Martin Luther King and others. He asked friends for advice and started paying attention to how and what he said.
"I got fired up about it," he said. "It motivated me to do better; there's no question about that. When you've won three games in two years and you hear your job's on the line because you can't speak, you start making changes."
As he sought to gain a verbal advantage in his professional capacity, Bentley honed in on the meaning of team, on the changes that needed to be made in that area; so now, when the people come by to watch tape, he's accommodating, as always.
"We're all coaches; we're all involved with Xs and Os," Bentley said. "But this thing we're doing here, it isn't about the plays, man, it's about the team. You better do some things to bring these kids together, to build that family bond, because if you want to know what we're about,
that's what we're about."
On Aug. 23, installation of the 45-foot tall, $325,000 Jumbotron scoreboard is due to be completed, three days before Byrnes hosts Glades Central (Fla.) High School in a game broadcast nationally on cable television, a game that will kick off the team's attempt to win a fifth consecutive state championship.
It's not
just high school football, it's what you make of it; so the TV game will include an F-18 flyover and a Black Hawk helicopter dropping the game ball.
"It keeps getting better," Bentley said. "After we won two (state championships), we set a goal of becoming a national program, and we feel like we're accomplishing that. (The TV game) just takes it to the next level, and that's the fun part.
"What will it look like? What will it feel like?" he said. "Can we keep it up? If we do, what else is out there for us? I can only see it getting better."
Well said, coach.
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