Sushi,<O:p</O:p
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Sounds like this advice thread has created more confusion than it cleared up. Bottom line, though, is that ekeen is right in saying that you're the only one who can fully evaluate the situation. You know the organization and the people involved. Do you have a coworker you absolutely trust that you might ask for advice on the situation? At least then, you'd be getting input from someone else with firsthand knowledge of the people involved.
For what it's worth, I'm inclined to agree with those that have suggested that you stand to cause more harm than good in this situation. I'm a firm believer that karma will eventually even things out. From my experience, I had a number of issues with my old company and nearly walked out on principle on a couple of occasions. One of those occasions was upon the termination of a coworker who had been branded a "trouble-maker" and had made the wrong enemies. I felt her termination was completely unjustified and purely out of retaliation. However, the company, though it is publicly traded, still operates like a family business, with all of the inherently evil politics and back-biting. That same coworker found a new job quickly, though, and recommended that her new employer hire me two months later. So, I got to resign on my own terms and raise all of my issues and complaints at my exit interview. Of course, from talking to friends who are still there, none of it had any positive effect anyway, but at least I wasn’t putting my own well being in any jeopardy by trying to make a difference.
That said, though, this is a personal decision that only you can make. If you feel that strongly about it, which it sounds like you do, then by all means, say something. Just make sure you are fully cognizant of the risks and are willing to accept any possible outcomes.
Maybe we should change the direction of this thread and start suggesting alternate things Sushi can do to feel better about the situation. Clearly, the cooling off period isn’t enough, since it’s been two weeks already, and you’re still pretty steamed. But why not look for another job? It seems to me that if you were looking to transfer to another department, you may not be too happy where you are anyway. Write your resignation letter, even if you never plan on delivering it. Get a picture of the bitch and mount it to a dart board. Buy a punching bag. Remind yourself that you’re WAY better than that bitch anyway… Suggestions, anyone?
Edit: Slash her tires... Good one.<O:p</O:p