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</td> </tr> </tbody> </table> [FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]By ROSEMARIE ROSSETTI[/FONT]
<section> </section> <article> <section> </section>[FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]A thank you card arrived in my mail last month from the family of Ohio State University football player Tyson Gentry.[/FONT]</article>
[FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]They thanked me for giving their son a copy of my book of inspirational articles "Take Back Your Life!" The unexpected circumstances that led them to write this card may give you something to think about.[/FONT]
[FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]On Aug. 22, 2005, I had the opportunity to speak before the OSU Buckeye football team and coaches. I shared the story about my spinal cord injury. I also shared lessons to live by to help them cope with change and deal with adversity, on and off the football field. I spoke about Adam Taliaferro, a Penn State football player who had a spinal cord injury during the September 23, 2000 game at Ohio State.[/FONT]
[FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]At the end of my presentation, I handed out 8 ?222-178?" X 11" sheets of assorted colored construction paper and markers to each person in the audience. I asked them to write an inspirational message to the new patients with spinal cord injuries at the OSU Dodd Hall rehabilitation center. Each player signed his name and put his jersey number on his "Get Well" card. I explained that I would be taking the cards to Dodd Hall that evening and they would be displayed in the hallways. This would be a great way to boost the spirits of the patients, families, doctors, nurses and staff, especially during the fall football season. [/FONT]
[FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]When the audience left the auditorium, my husband, Mark, as well as Coach Jim Tressel, his wife Ellen, and I began to read what the audience members had written. At times, each of us read a verse from a card out loud and marveled at the sentiments. Tressel was amazed at the heart-felt language and artwork that his players had created. He shared personal stories with Mark and me about many of the players. You could see from his smile and the tears welling in his eyes that Tressel was very proud of what the players had expressed. Indeed, these Buckeyes offered inspiration and support to others whose lives had suddenly changed forever.[/FONT]
[FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]When I delivered the cards to Dodd Hall, they were treated with high regard. Several were framed, hung on the walls, and taped to the windows of the inpatient and outpatient facilities. They are still on display today. One of them reads: "Never give up no matter how much adversity you face. You can always overcome & beat adversity. A lot of people believe in you."[/FONT]
[FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]In April 2006, a Dodd Hall staff member photocopied that particular get well card and rushed it to the OSU intensive care unit. Why? Tyson Gentry, a 20 year old freshman on the football team was in intensive care.[/FONT]
[FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]The OSU punter and receiver sustained a spinal cord injury during practice on April 14. He was taken to the OSU medical center for surgery on his neck. Later he was transported to Dodd Hall for rehabilitation, the same center where I spent five weeks after my injury in the summer of 1998. And who was the OSU football player that created that particular get well card?195-151?? Tyson Gentry.[/FONT]
[FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]Never did I imagine how soon adversity would strike one of the players![/FONT]
[FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]Ironic! The message he wrote was meant to be seen by a newly injured patient at Dodd Hall. Now he was that patient! One can only imagine what went through his mind when his get well card was delivered.[/FONT]
[FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]Today, I spoke to Gentry about his experience of receiving his card. He said that one of his nurses remembered that the card was at Dodd Hall and requested that the copy be sent. Gentry said, "When I saw the card, it was kind of weird and neata surreal experience! You never know what can happen. God throws things at you and you have to roll with the punches."[/FONT]
[FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]He told me that when I asked him in August 2005 to write the card, he remembered thinking about what to write. "I was clueless. I thought a few minutes. I had never been around a person with a spinal cord injury. I wanted to tell them to stay positive and fight through it. Funny how it happened the way it did."[/FONT]
[FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]Perhaps something I said in August 2005 will come to mind as he lay in bed thinking about his future. One of the lessons I explained during my presentation was to focus on a hopeful future, not on self pity. That lesson was taught to me by Christopher Reeve.[/FONT]
[FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]One year before my injury I was in the audience at Reeve's presentation in Columbus. Reeve spoke about the loneliness of his nights in the rehabilitation center and his thoughts of hopelessness. I remember him explaining how self pity is a trap that leads to deep depression.[/FONT]
[FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]When I was at Dodd Hall, I had a photo of Christopher Reeve, taken during his speech, mounted on the wall at the foot of my bed. I looked at it often during many lonely nights and tried to focus on how my life would have value again. As I focused my thoughts on a hopeful future, I began to feel encouraged about my recovery.[/FONT]
[FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]Today, Gentry has his get well card framed and setting on the window ledge next to his hospital bed. Maybe this card can serve as his inspirational anchor for the next several weeks at Dodd Hall.[/FONT]
[FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]Each time I look at that thank you card from the Gentry family, I get an eerie feeling. Words of encouragement can come from a myriad of sources: people, books, articles, cards, and speeches. Given the chance to create a card, I wonder what I might have written before my injury. Maybe we should write a card to ourselves and give it to someone for safe keeping in case someday we need encouragement.[/FONT]
[FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]Encouragement from unexpected sources [/FONT]
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<section> </section> <article> <section> </section>[FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]A thank you card arrived in my mail last month from the family of Ohio State University football player Tyson Gentry.[/FONT]</article>
[FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]They thanked me for giving their son a copy of my book of inspirational articles "Take Back Your Life!" The unexpected circumstances that led them to write this card may give you something to think about.[/FONT]
[FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]On Aug. 22, 2005, I had the opportunity to speak before the OSU Buckeye football team and coaches. I shared the story about my spinal cord injury. I also shared lessons to live by to help them cope with change and deal with adversity, on and off the football field. I spoke about Adam Taliaferro, a Penn State football player who had a spinal cord injury during the September 23, 2000 game at Ohio State.[/FONT]
[FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]At the end of my presentation, I handed out 8 ?222-178?" X 11" sheets of assorted colored construction paper and markers to each person in the audience. I asked them to write an inspirational message to the new patients with spinal cord injuries at the OSU Dodd Hall rehabilitation center. Each player signed his name and put his jersey number on his "Get Well" card. I explained that I would be taking the cards to Dodd Hall that evening and they would be displayed in the hallways. This would be a great way to boost the spirits of the patients, families, doctors, nurses and staff, especially during the fall football season. [/FONT]
[FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]When the audience left the auditorium, my husband, Mark, as well as Coach Jim Tressel, his wife Ellen, and I began to read what the audience members had written. At times, each of us read a verse from a card out loud and marveled at the sentiments. Tressel was amazed at the heart-felt language and artwork that his players had created. He shared personal stories with Mark and me about many of the players. You could see from his smile and the tears welling in his eyes that Tressel was very proud of what the players had expressed. Indeed, these Buckeyes offered inspiration and support to others whose lives had suddenly changed forever.[/FONT]
[FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]When I delivered the cards to Dodd Hall, they were treated with high regard. Several were framed, hung on the walls, and taped to the windows of the inpatient and outpatient facilities. They are still on display today. One of them reads: "Never give up no matter how much adversity you face. You can always overcome & beat adversity. A lot of people believe in you."[/FONT]
[FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]In April 2006, a Dodd Hall staff member photocopied that particular get well card and rushed it to the OSU intensive care unit. Why? Tyson Gentry, a 20 year old freshman on the football team was in intensive care.[/FONT]
[FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]The OSU punter and receiver sustained a spinal cord injury during practice on April 14. He was taken to the OSU medical center for surgery on his neck. Later he was transported to Dodd Hall for rehabilitation, the same center where I spent five weeks after my injury in the summer of 1998. And who was the OSU football player that created that particular get well card?195-151?? Tyson Gentry.[/FONT]
[FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]Never did I imagine how soon adversity would strike one of the players![/FONT]
[FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]Ironic! The message he wrote was meant to be seen by a newly injured patient at Dodd Hall. Now he was that patient! One can only imagine what went through his mind when his get well card was delivered.[/FONT]
[FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]Today, I spoke to Gentry about his experience of receiving his card. He said that one of his nurses remembered that the card was at Dodd Hall and requested that the copy be sent. Gentry said, "When I saw the card, it was kind of weird and neata surreal experience! You never know what can happen. God throws things at you and you have to roll with the punches."[/FONT]
[FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]He told me that when I asked him in August 2005 to write the card, he remembered thinking about what to write. "I was clueless. I thought a few minutes. I had never been around a person with a spinal cord injury. I wanted to tell them to stay positive and fight through it. Funny how it happened the way it did."[/FONT]
[FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]Perhaps something I said in August 2005 will come to mind as he lay in bed thinking about his future. One of the lessons I explained during my presentation was to focus on a hopeful future, not on self pity. That lesson was taught to me by Christopher Reeve.[/FONT]
[FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]One year before my injury I was in the audience at Reeve's presentation in Columbus. Reeve spoke about the loneliness of his nights in the rehabilitation center and his thoughts of hopelessness. I remember him explaining how self pity is a trap that leads to deep depression.[/FONT]
[FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]When I was at Dodd Hall, I had a photo of Christopher Reeve, taken during his speech, mounted on the wall at the foot of my bed. I looked at it often during many lonely nights and tried to focus on how my life would have value again. As I focused my thoughts on a hopeful future, I began to feel encouraged about my recovery.[/FONT]
[FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]Today, Gentry has his get well card framed and setting on the window ledge next to his hospital bed. Maybe this card can serve as his inspirational anchor for the next several weeks at Dodd Hall.[/FONT]
[FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]Each time I look at that thank you card from the Gentry family, I get an eerie feeling. Words of encouragement can come from a myriad of sources: people, books, articles, cards, and speeches. Given the chance to create a card, I wonder what I might have written before my injury. Maybe we should write a card to ourselves and give it to someone for safe keeping in case someday we need encouragement.[/FONT]
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