Nick Swisher honors memory of woman who raised him
BY Anthony Mccarron
DAILY NEWS SPORTS WRITER
Saturday, May 9th 2009
Sipkin/News
Nick Swisher always keeps the memory of his grandmother - Betty Lorraine Swisher (below) - in his thoughts when on and off field.
The tattoo sits on his chest, right near Nick Swisher's heart: "BLS," his grandmother's initials, with angel's wings and a halo. It is a remarkable tribute to Betty Lorraine Swisher, the woman Swisher calls the love of his life and an inspiration.
Swisher will honor his grandmother today on Mother's Day, but that's nothing new - he does each day. "It's a big day for me," Swisher says, "but it's not the only day I think about her. I think about her every day."
Swisher's parents - his father, Steve, is a former major-league catcher - divorced when he was in eighth grade and he moved into his grandparents' house in Parkersburg, West Virginia. His grandmother kept the loquacious Swisher in line when he'd "get in trouble in school for talking out or being hyper," Swisher says.
"When she got ahold of me, that stopped real quick," Swisher adds, chuckling. "I always joke around that in the movie, 'Talladega Nights,' when she lays down the 'Granny Law,' that's exactly what grandma did for me. She turned me into a man, she really did, and I can't thank her enough for it."
Betty Swisher died of brain cancer on Aug. 14, 2005, and Swisher's beloved grandfather, Donald, died last November. Both are a part of his daily life, though, in part through a series of baseball rituals that any Yankee fan has probably noticed.
He has both of their initials scrawled on the bottom of the handle of all his bats and he usually kisses that spot before he goes to the plate. Then he looks upward to recognize them again.
"A lot of people ask me if I'm looking up at the sky, but the one thing that really helped me get through the tough times of losing those two were to give them the best seats in the house," Swisher says. "In my mind, that's the top of the stadium. At Yankee Stadium, it's actually the top of the Megatron (scoreboard screen), so I visualize them sitting there, watching me play. I know they're cheering for me. I just wish they could be here in person to see all this.
"They got to see me in the big leagues and that was important. People ask me about the way I play - having a blast, playing hard. I don't want to disappoint them, because they see everything. In my mind, after the game, they go back up to heaven and they're chilling, doing whatever they're doing.
"This world needs more people like them. I wish every day they could be here with me."