A long read but I need some help. Thank you in advance...
A few months ago my grandfather was diagnosed with esophageal cancer. After a pretty serious regimen of radiation he seemed as though he might come out of it although he wouldn't really tell anyone what the doctors were really saying. Last week we found out they have given him 3 - 6 months to live. They can't really even try anymore treatment because he is very weak now and the doctors don't think he could handle the treatment. Although the news literally made my heart hurt, I feel very lucky to have had all 4 of my grandparents for 33 years. (My other grandfather died 2 years ago last March of cancer.) He has had a long wonderful life. I am not ashamed to tell you that I am a man at 35 years of age and I am crying my eyes out as I write this. This man was like a second father to me and it really hurts to watch him wither away. My wife and I went to see him and my grandma this weekend and he seems pretty comfortable with the fact that the end is near. He doesn't eat much and his strength is really low. It is hard for him to walk to the mailbox and back. All of this background is leading to my question that I can't seem to find an answer to and I am hoping some of you can help me. While we were there I told him that if gets his strength up and he feels up to it I would take him to the N. Illinois game. You have never seen an old man's face perk up and his attitude change in your life. It was if he had a goal. He hasn't been to game for a very long time. As a student I have a student ticket and my spouses ticket. I have never had any problem getting anyone in on my wife's ticket so I am not really worried about that. I am wondering if any of you are familiar with the stadium's policy on disabled people coming to the game. There is no way that he will be able to climb many steps so I will have to get a wheelchair in there. If someone knows who to call where I could find out some info I would really appreciate it. I tried calling the ticket office and all they really told me is that as long as I have my ID and my wife "spouse ID" I could get him in but didn't really say anything about disability seating.
A few months ago my grandfather was diagnosed with esophageal cancer. After a pretty serious regimen of radiation he seemed as though he might come out of it although he wouldn't really tell anyone what the doctors were really saying. Last week we found out they have given him 3 - 6 months to live. They can't really even try anymore treatment because he is very weak now and the doctors don't think he could handle the treatment. Although the news literally made my heart hurt, I feel very lucky to have had all 4 of my grandparents for 33 years. (My other grandfather died 2 years ago last March of cancer.) He has had a long wonderful life. I am not ashamed to tell you that I am a man at 35 years of age and I am crying my eyes out as I write this. This man was like a second father to me and it really hurts to watch him wither away. My wife and I went to see him and my grandma this weekend and he seems pretty comfortable with the fact that the end is near. He doesn't eat much and his strength is really low. It is hard for him to walk to the mailbox and back. All of this background is leading to my question that I can't seem to find an answer to and I am hoping some of you can help me. While we were there I told him that if gets his strength up and he feels up to it I would take him to the N. Illinois game. You have never seen an old man's face perk up and his attitude change in your life. It was if he had a goal. He hasn't been to game for a very long time. As a student I have a student ticket and my spouses ticket. I have never had any problem getting anyone in on my wife's ticket so I am not really worried about that. I am wondering if any of you are familiar with the stadium's policy on disabled people coming to the game. There is no way that he will be able to climb many steps so I will have to get a wheelchair in there. If someone knows who to call where I could find out some info I would really appreciate it. I tried calling the ticket office and all they really told me is that as long as I have my ID and my wife "spouse ID" I could get him in but didn't really say anything about disability seating.