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Little sister all grown up?

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Honestly, if this was me, and my little sister, I would threaten the peckerhead. But that's totally up to you. Another suggestion, though, is to sit down with your sister, have a little respectful chat, and give her a box of condoms. Now that she's had sex, there is roughly a 100% chance she'll do it again. 16 year old kids are not ready for sex, and if she doesn't have protection WITH her when the "opportunity" next arises, I can guarantee she won't stop to go buy any. To avoid STD's and pregnancy, or at least minimize those risks, I would give her a box of condoms so that you know she has them. But, I would also mention that condoms will not stop anything 100% (STD's or pregnancy), AND that condoms won't even minimize the risk of some STD's.
 
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I know these are serious issues that Scarlet is dealing with here...

But be honest...

Am I the only one who's waxing just a little nostalgic about being the guy who pisses off a teenage pretty's big brother...

Just asking...

(Hey.. I'm not saying don't beat the dudes ass or whatever you want to do... Its just how this game is played)
 
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In all honesty I'm not as mad at him as I am my sister. Hey after all, lord knows that I've pissed of a lot of brothers and fathers. I just wish that she would've thought a little more about the concequences (sp?) and been a little more responsible. My biggest problem is that no protection was used and my mom ended up having to take her to planned parenthood for one of those mornig after pills (the bastard didn't even bother to do the pull and pray method) which cost $70.
 
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coxew said:
Just curious, but how did your parents find out. Did she confess after the deed or were they caught?
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As I mentioned before, my mom is good friends with his mom and I guess after the deed was done peckerhead called his mother crying because he made the mistake of planting his seed. His mother then called mine and told her all about it.
 
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When I was 15 and my cousin was 16 my uncle, my cousin's dad, went out and bought us both a box of condoms.

He sat down and explained VD, he called it the clap, no herpes or AIDS then, and then told us what a pain it would be for a teenager to have to raise a kid. I remember him telling us how much it cost just to feed us.

It struck a nerve for me, it did not work for my cousin.

My mother is a nurse and put both my sister's on birth control at 16 or 17.

I think BuckiBri mentioned how oral sex is not even considered sex to these kids. There is so much pressure to look good and grow up too soon for kids.

You need to get to them quickly and have an honest discussion about the risks and responsibilities of sex.
 
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Sounds like a lesson was learned (I hope for her sake, the guy had his "cherry popped" as well.. that way the risk of std's could be less)...

I'm sure there was a talk when she took the morning after pill... look at the bright side, the boy was smart enough to know there could be a problem (ie a future kid) and sounded the alarm... this could have been all hush, hush until it was too late...
 
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Something that I have told both my daughters is: If you want to screw up your life have sex before you graduate from college. All it takes is one time, even with protection nothing is 100%. You can get one of the STD's with AIDS being the kiss of death. You can get pregnant giving you a huge hurdle to clear (abort or deliver), alot of emotional bagage either way. But, if you wait and get your education, at least you have your education behind you and have a foundation to build your life on. I use the illustration of several others who got pregnant (that they know) to show what hardships these girls have faced and what obstacles they will have to overcome. From an economic point, these girls are behind the eight ball (my daughters can see this).
 
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Talk to her non-confrontationally and offer up a peace item like a pack of condoms. She'll never be as comfortable talking to her parents as she would her sibling. Explain all the ramifications then present her 'the gift'.

Be confrontational with the little brother. Let him know how serious you are and what will happen to him (from you) if he happens to get her pregnant. Don't give him a license to bed her anytime he wants, let him know they're WILL be trouble .

I'm glad I have boys.
 
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I am glad I've got boys. Sounds like the lucky guy did the right thing and "came clean" the next day with his mom (that don't sound right). Your little sis does need a talk, not using protection and letting the dude finish inside.. I would have thought she would've been in a major panic. Make sure you give her other options for finishing off her partner that are safer, like the NJ state bird (swallow) etc.. I am sorry, couldnt resist. When you are talking to her make sure you also hit the subject of drinking and driving - another problem with youngsters:wink2: (Feb 20th, 1998 for me).
 
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Whatever you do, when you address this situation with whomever, make sure you are cutting up a suasage with a huge knife.. If they say, "Woa, what gives eith the sausage?!" Say, "Just making a meat and cheese tray before I hunker down for some Olympic badmitton" I trust that this will, as they say, "send a message."
I don't have any real advice for you, but as the father of a 7 year old daughter, I've enjoyed reading the responses.. One day I'll have to deal with some little prick using his little prick to make my girl a "woman." Not looking forward to that, I can assure you.
 
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It sounds like you are getting some good advice. I would sit your sister down and have an adult conversation. As was mentioned, girls are more mature than guys at that age. She may also be more receptive to a conversation from an older sibling than a parent as well. From parents it may sound like preaching, from an older sibling it may sound like good advice from someone she looks up to.

I would also remind her not to sacrifice her future for a few minutes (or maybe seconds at that age) of fun in the sack. Raising a kid while you are a kid was never a choice I wanted to make. I always wanted to grow up before I had children of my own.

Finally, remind her that she is ultimately in control. Short of rape (Hope to God that does not happen and if it does find a nice hole for the piece of shit), the girl is always the one calling the shots. Remind her she is in charge and she needs to be responsible about everything, from having sex to wearing protection.
 
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