There was a "dude" I worked with here at Seoul Air Base that got out of the Air Force a few months ago. He just kinda disappeared outta no where. Nobody really knew what happened until a couple months back when via the magic of MySpace, some pictures surfaced. Cayle had become "Catherine". After the horse was out of the barn (so to speak), the story came to light. He got out after going to the commander and saying he was a woman trapped inside a man's body. A gay woman. See, he/she likes girls, but he wasn't a straight man, he was a gay woman. He wasn't a gay man that wanted a sex change, he was a gay woman trapped inside a man's body. True story.