And you've been a parent for how long now? Oh yeah, you're not...
So shut the fuck up until you know what you're talking about. Paid your dowry yet, Rashmish? 
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And you've been a parent for how long now? Oh yeah, you're not...
So shut the fuck up until you know what you're talking about. Paid your dowry yet, Rashmish? 
tibor75
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And you've been a parent for how long now? Oh yeah, you're not...
Unless you can cite some evidence showing that kids sleeping with their parents when they are 2 years old leads to unfit behavior, please stop infecting this thread with your stupidity.
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Do you need research and evidence on every instance of life in order to draw an accurate conclusion? Well, I guess when you have absolutely no experience in the subject matter like you do, you probably would. That fact that I've raised two perfectly normal, intelligent, and stable offspring gives me the position to make a statement, whereas you know jack shit. I suppose you think that breast feeding children until the reach school age (like that psycho mom in England did) wouldn't fuck a kid up.
All children, regardless of age, need to be away from their parents for a certain amount of time during the day. If you coddle a baby 24/7, it will be spoiled and totally dependent. And regardless what you may think, there is a huge difference in mental development between a two-year-old and an infant, so even if it may seem justified to have the baby in the room, there is absolutely no reason for the two-year-old to be sleeping in the parents' room.
Your MD certificate gets trumped big time by my parental experience. You may have a degree, but you're the one spewing the subject ignorance in this thread.
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tibor75
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The stupidity shown here is hilarious. So your personal experience of 2 (n = 2), proves that your ideas are the best? So, if a person abused cocaine and nothing happened to him, he could say "Cocaine is safe." Try understanding basic statistics before you spout such ignorance.
One of my parents' friends raised his kids like yours. Well, his daughter is a slut and just had an abortion, so I guess that proves my position. Uh, sure.
And where did it say the mother needed to be with the children 24/7? I didn't realize the children slept 24 hours a day?
Besides, I slept alone while I was a child and my sister didn't (b/c she was born in India), and she's more normal than me.
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The stupidity shown here is hilarious. So your personal experience of 2 (n = 2), proves that your ideas are the best? So, if a person abused cocaine and nothing happened to him, he could say "Cocaine is safe." Try understanding basic statistics before you spout such ignorance.
One of my parents' friends raised his kids like yours. Well, his daughter is a slut and just had an abortion, so I guess that proves my position. Uh, sure.
And where did it say the mother needed to be with the children 24/7? I didn't realize the children slept 24 hours a day?
Besides, I slept alone while I was a child and my sister didn't (b/c she was born in India), and she's more normal than me.
Wow, you are truly the dumbest fuck with a medical degree of all time...seriously.
1. Cocaine usage and parental techniques aren't apple and oranges, they're apples and rocks. Not even in the same galaxy as a valid analogy, dumbass.
2. The reason that your parent's friend's daughter became a slut wasn't because she slept in her own room, but rather because of other issues. Hey, let's take away the homes of every person who commits a crime because obviously the home didn't help that person's development.
3. When kids have to sleep in their parents' room for valid reasons other than obsession on the parent's part (such as lack of room in the house, as I would assume was the case as your sister in India), there's probably little effect on the child. The point here is that the children have their own room and yet the mother makes them sleep in the same room as the mother. This shows that mother is borderline obsessive and is most likely a very controlling and manipulative individual.
This situation reminds me of the Law and Order episode where this mother kept her two boys at home nearly 24/7, filing their heads with ideas that the world is so dangerous that they should only go outside when absolutely necessary (to get food and other vital necessities). The boys (late pre-teen and early teen) could barely function with anyone except each other and their mom. Yeah, it's a TV show, but many L&O episodes are heavily based on actual cases.
Go ask experienced social workers and they'll tell you that obsessive over-protection by parents can be just as harmful to child development as lack of parental involvement.
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tibor75
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Uh, actually no, it most countries in the world infants sleep in the same room as the parents - having nothing to do with socioeconomics (just like in most countries, elderly parents live with the oldest son - sending parents to a nursing home would be considered disgraceful). I don't know if that's a good thing or a bad thing, but that's the way most of the world works. You didn't know this? It's pretty common knowledge among "intelligent" people.
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Jagdaddy
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I don't get the impression that she's making them sleep there (I guess she is with the baby), but rather not kicking the two-year old out. That her husband is enough of a douche to turn a marital squablle into a publicity stunt suggests that her not wanting to be alone in bed with him might have some justification. That said, my own non-parent best guess is that keeping the kids out of the room is likely the superior parenting technique, although how kids turn out correlates imperfectly with the quality of their parents as evidenced by families in which one kid is successful and the other is a douche.
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Well...
If she'd using the kids as a shield from intimacy, he's probably got a good spousal neglect argument...
If she'd using the kids as a shield from intimacy, he's probably got a good spousal neglect argument...
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scarletandgrey
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I have no experience with kids. But I can say that there comes a time when a man wants to get him some. Especially after a few months of not getting any due to a pregnant wife. I'm sure all he's asking for is that they return the bedroom to thiers again and not the nursery in which it sounds like they already have. The kids can still stay in there a few nights but can a brother get some once in a while.
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I've never been a parent, but as a child I used to annoy the hell out of my father from the ages 5-7 as I would go to sleep in there room due to nightmares on a near nightly basis. So with that previous experience to me it would seem shocking if my mother could have been charged with anything; and that is 5-7 years old not 2 years. I would be shocked as all can be if she could be charged with anything for this... but I'm just guessing.
For the record, I turned out pretty normal...well aside from the obscene amount of hours spent on a message board
For the record, I turned out pretty normal...well aside from the obscene amount of hours spent on a message board
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Uh, actually no, it most countries in the world infants sleep in the same room as the parents - having nothing to do with socioeconomics (just like in most countries, elderly parents live with the oldest son - sending parents to a nursing home would be considered disgraceful). I don't know if that's a good thing or a bad thing, but that's the way most of the world works. You didn't know this? It's pretty common knowledge among "intelligent" people.
So, since "most of the world" works a certain way, we in America should have open sewers running through the streets and quit wiping our ass with toilet paper, like most of the world does...typical third-world answer from a third-world dumbass.
Besides, Einstein, the discussion is not about having elderly parents live at home with their kids so that the kids can help provide for their parents in the later stages of their life...I support that idea wholeheartedly. Rather, it's about having a kid who is clearly old enough to sleep in his own room---and in this case actually has his own room--instead sleep in the same room as his parents. There's no reason why this mother shouldn't be letting her two-year-old sleep alone. The mother's actions are not normal.
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I guess that would sway my opinion (although not to the point of being legally unfit). I agree with you, although I missed where the 2-year-old was wanting to sleep by themselves. I assumed the 2 year old was wanting to sleep with the parents.
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