My youngest one was born under very bad circumstances. I stood in the OR and watched as my wife had an emergency c-section. My daughter came out with the cord in three knots, wrapped around her body numerous times. She had no pulse, was not breathing and was an ugly grey color. The NICU doctor was in there in a flash and I listened as he worked frantically to get her going. CPR, drugs and oxygen were all administered. I had to attend to my wife who was unaware of the entire situation. I watched as they sewed my wife up counting every pad and instrument to make sure they had not left any behind. Then I went to the NICU expecting the worse. When I got there there they had just inserted a breathing tube into my daughter. She pulled it out. I figured with that attiude she was going to be alright. She is one ornery, intelligent, full of life kid today who can do little wrong as far as I'm concerned.
There have been some threads here and on BN about playing football in the cold. I played on a very good high school football team. I do not remember hearing the band, the cheerleaders of the fans throughout the season. It seemed to me the games occurred in slow motion. Our last game was in a freezing, snow storm. At the end of the game we had won and I was instantly aware of the cold, the noise and everything else going on around me. Everyone else was freezing and hauled ass towards the locker room. I stood there and then slowly walked toward my teammates. My defensive coordinator came back to ask me if I was OK. I guess at that point I realized that phase of my life was over and I would miss it. I played college football but it never had the same impact.
Most of my friends from Ohio and I have been through life's little ups and downs. Divorce, bad hearts, cancer deaths, job loss and bankruptcy to name a few. We still get together every year after Thanksgiving to go deer hunting. It is not about the hunt. We drink, lie, laugh and tell stories about each other. As long as I walk the face of this earth I will be there each week after thanksgiving.