Big House good-bye
Web-posted Nov 22, 2006
Celebration of Bo more a matter of smiles than tears
By PAULA PASCHE
Of The Oakland Press
Larry and Sue Lacoboni of Oak Park recite a prayer during the service. -AP PHOTO
ANN ARBOR - Bo Schembechler's life was celebrated Tuesday at the most fitting place on the face of the earth, Michigan Stadium.
Hundreds of his former players not just from Michigan, but also from his days at Miami (Ohio), entered the stadum from the tunnel, walked across the field and under the traditional "Go Blue" banner while the Michigan band played "The Victors."
It was tabbed as a celebration of the life of the legendary coach. And that it was. For nearly three hours, tales were told. Emotions ranged from gut-busting laughs to a tear now and then.
His death on Friday, was remarkable. It was 37 years ago today that Schembechler's Wolverines took the fi eld at Michigan Stadium as heavy underdogs and went on to scorch the Buckeyes 24-12.
Last Tuesday, prior to the Ohio State game, athletic director Bill Martin made a rare appearance at football practice and spent the time chatting with Schembechler on everything from cranberry sauce to football.
When they parted, Schembechler said, "Now, Martin, you going to get this (darned) stadium project done, aren't you?" Then he offered to help in any way he could.
Everybody had a story to tell, most of them ending with a hilarious Schembechler punchline.
Lloyd Carr remembered that just last week, Bo had told him he was having trouble breathing. He then told Carr, "I can't live like this."
When Carr was Schembechler's assistant, Notre Dame coach Lou Holtz offered him a job as defensive coordinator. Schembechler told him he was not going to Notre Dame. So he didn't.
"Bo did not have a particular fondness for Notre Dame," Carr said. "... I can guarantee you this, the first time Bo Schembechler will ever cheer for Notre Dame will be this Saturday."
(Because if the Irish top USC this weekend, it would enhance Michigan's chances of playing a rematch against Ohio State in the national championship game.)
Dan Dierdorf, who played at Michigan from 1968-70, was recruited by Schembechler while he was at Miami. But Dierdorf, not about to be bothered by a small school, wanted to play at Michigan. Two years later Schembechler took the job at Michigan.
Dierdorf thought he'd go on the offensive and welcome the new coach to Michigan. He met him in the hall and stuck out his hand to shake, when Bo grabbed him around the mid-section and said, "You're fat, you're mine and I don't forget." said Dierdorf, who had maintained a friendship with his former coach.
Dierdorf said that Monday's funeral procession took one last loop past Schembechler Hall and Michigan Stadium.
"In the car I felt kind of lost," Dierdorf said.
"We'll be OK, we'll be all right. Our foundation is not made of clay, it's made of maize and blue Schembechler granite," he added.
Former running back Jamie Morris (1984-87) still kept in close contact with the coach. He recalled how they would go to lunch and Schembechler would say they should both eat healthy and have salads. Then he'd order a burger with everything and warn Morris not to tell anyone. He'd call Morris late a night because his new 50-inch plasma TV wasn't working when he just hadn't waited long enough for it to come on.
When Schembechler met him during a recruiting visit, he told Morris, "Son, I don't know if you can handle a Big Ten season." Then, as Morris remembers, the coach saw the look in his eye and said "I'll tell you what, you may be Michigan material." Then Morris had to gather himself.
Turns out Morris was Michigan material. He still holds the record for most career all-purpose yards at Michigan with 6,201.
John Robinson, former USC coach, remembered the day he first met Schembechler at a press conference prior to the Rose Bowl. A reporter had written something nasty about his team, and before he could address it, Schembechler took over the podium. "He gives this guy hell for about fi ve minutes," said Robinson who remained close with Schembechler and his wife throughout the years.
Reggie McKenzie, who played for Schembechler (1969-71) and then the Buffalo Bills summed up the sentiment of many players, saying that he appreciated Bo more after he left.
Others sharing memories included Gary Moeller, who succeeded Schembechler, and Bob Forman, former executive director of the U-M alumni association.
Forman once was on an alumni trip with Schembechler, who was coming off a health problem. So Forman asked the others on the trip not to bother Bo with football questions, just to let him relax.
A few days later, Schembechler approached him. "Forman, this is the worst group of Michigan alumni I ever met. Not one of them is interested in football," Forman recalled.
Moeller watched games in the press box with Schembechler in recent years. He said the old coach was still coaching.
"It was very special to have that relationship," Moeller said.
Jim Brandstatter, who played in that 1969 season and maintained his friendship with Schembechler, was the master of ceremonies, throwing in a story now and then. Shemy Schembechler, Bo's son, was the last to speak. He has now lost both parents, and the pain was evident. He told how he was coached by his dad almost on a daily basis, whether it was on the playground as a second-grader or when he finally decided to try football as a senior at Huron High School. He broke down several times. His dad left quite a legacy. The thousands in attendance were testament to that. The stories told the best of Bo Schembechler, who was much more than a great football coach. He was a character who was full of character. He was a Michigan man.