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University Reverses Divorce Policy

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Oklahoma Christian Withdraws Divorce Policy (Sort of)

Oklahoma Christian University employees who get divorced need not fear getting fired — at least not because of a written policy.

The university has withdrawn a draft policy that formally stated that divorce could be grounds for dismissal and that administrators would need to investigate divorces to see if they violated the beliefs of the university, which is affiliated with the Churches of Christ.

“There were enough people who raised concerns about the policy and misunderstood the intent that it was in the best interests of the university to withdraw the policy,” said Ron Frost, a spokesman for Oklahoma Christian. However, the demise of the written policy doesn’t mean that the policy is gone. Frost said that the written policy was just codifying existing practice, which he said wouldn’t change.

“We will just not have a written policy, but in situations where there is the potential for someone to exhibit a non-Christian marriage model, then in that case, we would consider some action,” he said.

Frost said that the draft policy “upset some people,” especially divorced employees.

The policy draft had explained the need for a formal rule by saying that the Bible defines marriage as “a relationship created by God and not to be broken except in extremely rare circumstances.” A “very important” role for faculty members, the draft said, is to “model strong Christian marriages.”

When the draft became public this week, Oklahoma Christian came under fire. The Oklahoman on Thursday reported that Kevin E. Jacobs, a former president of the university, was divorced in 2004 (after he left the institution) and quoted him as saying that the proposed policy appeared to “completely disregard the emotional trauma of divorce.”

http://insidehighered.com/news/2006/01/13/divorce
 
“We will just not have a written policy, but in situations where there is the potential for someone to exhibit a non-Christian marriage model, then in that case, we would consider some action,” he said.

Doesn't the absence of a written policy open the door to someone coming back at them for wrongful dismissal?
 
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can someone please describe to me what a "good christian marriage" is like? you know... the day to day rules, the boundaries, the extreme situations that either fit or do not fit the mold. thanks...


It's pretty easy. The wife needs to submit to the husband, and give him sex whenever he wants it, and the husband needs to take care of his wife (by giving her sex a lot).
 
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can someone please describe to me what a "good christian marriage" is like? you know... the day to day rules, the boundaries, the extreme situations that either fit or do not fit the mold. thanks...

FKA has a good start to answering this since husbands and wives are not suppose to deny each other's sexual desires (asuming they are within what the couple defines as normal) lest temptation would lead them into adultry.

Essentially, a good Christian marriage would have the woman submitting to her husband by choice, not by force, and the husband loving his wife to the point that he would sacrifice his life for her. The husband is suppose to be the spiritual leader of the household, but in all other things, they should be equal. This of course does not mean there are not discussions of spiritual issues....or as my wife likes to say, I might be the head, but she is the neck.

My wife and I wrote our own vows and this is what I pledged to her..."to love her as Christ loves the church, for which he gave his life". Thinking back on it now....mabye I picked too high of a standard, but that is what I felt/feel God requires of me.
 
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