It's not that I have been thru more, it's that I have been thru different shit than you. The way we handle, tackle and digest this shit is what defines us. Be proud of who you are, enjoy the company you keep and vow to make a difference in this world (for the better) once you are gone and everything else just sort of falls into place... You know all this already though, maybe you just need a bit of a reminder..... REMINDER!!!!!!!